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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 745929" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>SWOT, Bank of Mom has been shut down for a while. I did not buy her her business, she opened a spa and then refused to pay me rent leaving me with the morgage payment, I would have never bought the spa business. My name is on her cars but she has been making the payments and back payments and is almost done.</em></p><p><em>I will not continue paying any of her bills and if the college loan people garnish her wages, good for them. She knows that if she does not make her house note she is out this time for sure. We sat down with her and boyfriend and told them what will be happening. We told them we are not going into 2019 constantly watching ourselves from getting ripped off. They both are crystal clear on that. We listed all the money she owes us on a spread sheet and the payments start March 1. The back rent and the missed car payments will be repaid and she is held accountable for that, either way we will get our money back when we sell the home, we know what she is like so we set things up so we were certain to get our money back. We have had to stay ahead of her from getting ripped off, she knows we are on to her. It feels sad deep in my heart to think I have to protect myself from my own daughter. There is no real relationship where there is not real trust. I can't do superficial relationships they are just too draining for me, I try so hard to make this one work and it is so much work.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>KTMOM91, Yes the loan people are relentless. We told our daughter that we would help her through college when she started, we found out she was ripping us off and stopped all payments. She only had a year and 1/2 left and had to take her own loans in her own name. All of her college would have been paid for had she not tried to rip us off. It hurts my stomach to even type that. She has caused so much grief on a regular basis, even when I disconnect from her completely people are still calling me telling me about her bad choices.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>It is heartbreaking to look at my daughter. She is unbathed and manic. She talks nonstop about politics because she is the expert and has deep inside information from the hightest level. She posts political stuff constantly and somethings I do not think would be good for her career if her boss would see. I love her with my entire heart and soul, I cannot stand her.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 745929, member: 22416"] [I]SWOT, Bank of Mom has been shut down for a while. I did not buy her her business, she opened a spa and then refused to pay me rent leaving me with the morgage payment, I would have never bought the spa business. My name is on her cars but she has been making the payments and back payments and is almost done. I will not continue paying any of her bills and if the college loan people garnish her wages, good for them. She knows that if she does not make her house note she is out this time for sure. We sat down with her and boyfriend and told them what will be happening. We told them we are not going into 2019 constantly watching ourselves from getting ripped off. They both are crystal clear on that. We listed all the money she owes us on a spread sheet and the payments start March 1. The back rent and the missed car payments will be repaid and she is held accountable for that, either way we will get our money back when we sell the home, we know what she is like so we set things up so we were certain to get our money back. We have had to stay ahead of her from getting ripped off, she knows we are on to her. It feels sad deep in my heart to think I have to protect myself from my own daughter. There is no real relationship where there is not real trust. I can't do superficial relationships they are just too draining for me, I try so hard to make this one work and it is so much work. KTMOM91, Yes the loan people are relentless. We told our daughter that we would help her through college when she started, we found out she was ripping us off and stopped all payments. She only had a year and 1/2 left and had to take her own loans in her own name. All of her college would have been paid for had she not tried to rip us off. It hurts my stomach to even type that. She has caused so much grief on a regular basis, even when I disconnect from her completely people are still calling me telling me about her bad choices. It is heartbreaking to look at my daughter. She is unbathed and manic. She talks nonstop about politics because she is the expert and has deep inside information from the hightest level. She posts political stuff constantly and somethings I do not think would be good for her career if her boss would see. I love her with my entire heart and soul, I cannot stand her.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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