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<blockquote data-quote="sickofit" data-source="post: 541731" data-attributes="member: 14936"><p>I,ve often wondered how he could be so disrespectful the problems started when he was still quite young,when he graduated from the 5th grade unbenounced to me or husband 2 he through himself a graduation party "picture this" Its a hot friday you come home from work thinkin your gonna relax its the weekend and all of a sudden" kids" an I mean car loads of them,an avalanche of them are being dropped off in my driveway...I start questioning my son to find out he used school computer to make invitations to his 5th grade graduation party I knew nothing about yesss I did some yelling at my son,and had to tell several kids there was no party an offer to let them use the phone to call there parents,but by then many of the kids had left on there own by one way or another so that night I was "rewarded" with several parents calling me to tell me what a bad parent I was,I never saw an invitation and did not get one phone call from any one of the parents befor they dropped there kids off,If I had at least I would of been warned about what was to come,as punishment I grounded him for the summer an took away toys,when my son developed a likeing for girls he raided my jewelry box an gave them my rings an necklaces I never recovered,at christmas time my habit was to put most wrapped gifts under the tree in the days befor christmas he not only opened gifts he gave some of them away,he had his own private little christmas he got into the gifts at least a couple of different years one way or another no matter how I hid them it started to feel like all I could do was punish him by grounding,an taking away toys,oh an of course since he was perpetually grounded that limited the rest of the families activities I talked to him about honesty,an integrity repeatedly,an yes I yelled until I was blue in the face I'm writing this to try an give myself relief,as if sending this will help it all go away somehow,an perhaps others can learn from this I've had years of counseling , therapy,self help books etc...I have often wondered if he's used cocaine or something an maybe he has but I've never seen evidence he's 36 now,I don't like him when he drinks but I have'nt even seen that often,both my daughter an him have the same father,they wanted to see him more than one weekend a month but the ex said I just wanted a babysitter,I came from a highly abusive family mother was highly abusive to me, alcoholic,died from it at age 44,father violent with mother an highly abusive also alcoholic two older brothers alcoholic,violent,mysojynistic,bi-polar,younger brother paranoid Psychizoprenic non violent,and one younger sister fetal alcohol syndrome,sad an partially why I have always suffered from depression,I almost never drink frankly I'm mostly repulsed by it especially the smell. I often wonder if the problems with my son are related to the problems that stem from my family of origin and my son not always haveing a good male role model and sometimes I think about how much better our lives might of been if I could of left the state with the kids and never looked back,instead I took mostly part-time jobs that allowed me to raise my kids an look after them in the hopes that there lives would be better and not abusive like mine,my daughter has never given me a problem worth speaking of she has self esteem an she is a productive responsible adult an mother.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sickofit, post: 541731, member: 14936"] I,ve often wondered how he could be so disrespectful the problems started when he was still quite young,when he graduated from the 5th grade unbenounced to me or husband 2 he through himself a graduation party "picture this" Its a hot friday you come home from work thinkin your gonna relax its the weekend and all of a sudden" kids" an I mean car loads of them,an avalanche of them are being dropped off in my driveway...I start questioning my son to find out he used school computer to make invitations to his 5th grade graduation party I knew nothing about yesss I did some yelling at my son,and had to tell several kids there was no party an offer to let them use the phone to call there parents,but by then many of the kids had left on there own by one way or another so that night I was "rewarded" with several parents calling me to tell me what a bad parent I was,I never saw an invitation and did not get one phone call from any one of the parents befor they dropped there kids off,If I had at least I would of been warned about what was to come,as punishment I grounded him for the summer an took away toys,when my son developed a likeing for girls he raided my jewelry box an gave them my rings an necklaces I never recovered,at christmas time my habit was to put most wrapped gifts under the tree in the days befor christmas he not only opened gifts he gave some of them away,he had his own private little christmas he got into the gifts at least a couple of different years one way or another no matter how I hid them it started to feel like all I could do was punish him by grounding,an taking away toys,oh an of course since he was perpetually grounded that limited the rest of the families activities I talked to him about honesty,an integrity repeatedly,an yes I yelled until I was blue in the face I'm writing this to try an give myself relief,as if sending this will help it all go away somehow,an perhaps others can learn from this I've had years of counseling , therapy,self help books etc...I have often wondered if he's used cocaine or something an maybe he has but I've never seen evidence he's 36 now,I don't like him when he drinks but I have'nt even seen that often,both my daughter an him have the same father,they wanted to see him more than one weekend a month but the ex said I just wanted a babysitter,I came from a highly abusive family mother was highly abusive to me, alcoholic,died from it at age 44,father violent with mother an highly abusive also alcoholic two older brothers alcoholic,violent,mysojynistic,bi-polar,younger brother paranoid Psychizoprenic non violent,and one younger sister fetal alcohol syndrome,sad an partially why I have always suffered from depression,I almost never drink frankly I'm mostly repulsed by it especially the smell. I often wonder if the problems with my son are related to the problems that stem from my family of origin and my son not always haveing a good male role model and sometimes I think about how much better our lives might of been if I could of left the state with the kids and never looked back,instead I took mostly part-time jobs that allowed me to raise my kids an look after them in the hopes that there lives would be better and not abusive like mine,my daughter has never given me a problem worth speaking of she has self esteem an she is a productive responsible adult an mother. [/QUOTE]
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