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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 418017" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>One point for him - it's better to commit to the marriage that has a chance, than one where the woman has openly declared herself to be a lesbian and has a live-in female lover... no matter what they HAD, it's past tense, as far as the chance of romance is concerned. Friendship and shared parenthood is a totally different kettle of mackerel, but there are many kinds of relationship. He needs to know how the different kinds work, and how to set (and keep) boundaries. So does she. And possibly, so do you. Or at least, you somehow all need to be working with the same rule book. And until now, that hasn't been happening. Mostly because of her grip on him, and his weakness/inability to set/keep those boundaries.</p><p></p><p>It will take time and, I think, professional help/supervision to make it happen and make sure it keeps on being OK. There's no shame in needing help with this. it IS a bit out of the ordinary.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 418017, member: 1991"] One point for him - it's better to commit to the marriage that has a chance, than one where the woman has openly declared herself to be a lesbian and has a live-in female lover... no matter what they HAD, it's past tense, as far as the chance of romance is concerned. Friendship and shared parenthood is a totally different kettle of mackerel, but there are many kinds of relationship. He needs to know how the different kinds work, and how to set (and keep) boundaries. So does she. And possibly, so do you. Or at least, you somehow all need to be working with the same rule book. And until now, that hasn't been happening. Mostly because of her grip on him, and his weakness/inability to set/keep those boundaries. It will take time and, I think, professional help/supervision to make it happen and make sure it keeps on being OK. There's no shame in needing help with this. it IS a bit out of the ordinary. Marg [/QUOTE]
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