I appreciate articles like these so much since they seem to validate the problems that so many of us have with our kids. I've been saying for years to difficult child's counselors that I thought that a lot of difficult child's rage was really at biomom and that I was a natural substitute. They have never taken that seriously. I printed parts of the article and will take it with me to difficult child's next session!
Thanks, Dee!
Suz
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Married 21+ yrs to husband. 1 son age 15, adopted at age 4. Diagnosed ADHD combined type (severe), ODD,Learning Disability (LD),Disthymic Disorder (chronic depression), possible Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)