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Living with Tennage Daughter diagnosis with Borderline (BPD)
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<blockquote data-quote="lovelyboy" data-source="post: 528317" data-attributes="member: 8045"><p>NSA......I agree with you.....reading your post I get the feeling that you feel the situation is out of contol? This increase the anxiety.....?Dont feel guilty for enjoying time with hubby and wanting some space to just relax.....this is maybe also part of the interaction with your child.....? That she makes you feel guilty about having time for yourself....see it for that and dont feel guilty...Dont be to hard on yourself for loosing that loving feeling....think some of us have been there, more than once! Just realize....if you start feeling more caring and some love from your daughter....when things get better....that love will come back......I fully agree.....we still love our difficult children but it is like defencemeganism to protect ourselves from getting hurt.....and to be honest...it isnt nice being around a hostile person!!!!Yes....you might need some medications for yourself! My sons psychiatrist put me on very low dose of antidepressant, to help me with my own emotions from having a tuff time with him....It really did us all wonders....I dont feel as if I have PMS all the time! My fuse is a bit longer and I actually feel like getting up in the mornings!I do think you must try and get a 'teamleader' for your situation.....some one who makes the treatment decisions, help the family with some familytherapy and monitor her medications and the other family members wellbeing? Maybe the psychiatrist can take this role? Just to give you a bit of a feeling of being in control of the situation? Hang in there! We are thinking of you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovelyboy, post: 528317, member: 8045"] NSA......I agree with you.....reading your post I get the feeling that you feel the situation is out of contol? This increase the anxiety.....?Dont feel guilty for enjoying time with hubby and wanting some space to just relax.....this is maybe also part of the interaction with your child.....? That she makes you feel guilty about having time for yourself....see it for that and dont feel guilty...Dont be to hard on yourself for loosing that loving feeling....think some of us have been there, more than once! Just realize....if you start feeling more caring and some love from your daughter....when things get better....that love will come back......I fully agree.....we still love our difficult children but it is like defencemeganism to protect ourselves from getting hurt.....and to be honest...it isnt nice being around a hostile person!!!!Yes....you might need some medications for yourself! My sons psychiatrist put me on very low dose of antidepressant, to help me with my own emotions from having a tuff time with him....It really did us all wonders....I dont feel as if I have PMS all the time! My fuse is a bit longer and I actually feel like getting up in the mornings!I do think you must try and get a 'teamleader' for your situation.....some one who makes the treatment decisions, help the family with some familytherapy and monitor her medications and the other family members wellbeing? Maybe the psychiatrist can take this role? Just to give you a bit of a feeling of being in control of the situation? Hang in there! We are thinking of you! [/QUOTE]
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