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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 281409" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I'm late coming into this but wanted to say a couple of things.</p><p></p><p>First of all....HUGS. You're doing a good thing for yourself, your sister and many others by persuing this.</p><p></p><p>As for the original question.....I don't have experience with this personally but put in the same situation, I would hope I would have the strength to do what you are doing. Personally, I would notify your aunts/family what you are doing and then proceed with things. If they are as open about things as you say and are willing, they will come forward. If not, they may just not want to face the old feelings again. But if they all of a sudden start denying things....one more reason to do this. And would you really want to continue a relationship with them if that happened? </p><p></p><p>If you feel you can handle the memories, any possible backlash from family or others associated with this person (he's not a man) then go get him! He needs to be locked away for the rest of his life. Preferrably in general population where the other inmates will make very clear what they think of his activities. But...that's just me.</p><p></p><p>You are doing a good thing...a VERY good thing and while I'm terribly sorry you had to go through any of this to begin with, I'm glad you have the perseverance to seek justice. You and the others affected by this creature are in my thoughts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 281409, member: 2459"] I'm late coming into this but wanted to say a couple of things. First of all....HUGS. You're doing a good thing for yourself, your sister and many others by persuing this. As for the original question.....I don't have experience with this personally but put in the same situation, I would hope I would have the strength to do what you are doing. Personally, I would notify your aunts/family what you are doing and then proceed with things. If they are as open about things as you say and are willing, they will come forward. If not, they may just not want to face the old feelings again. But if they all of a sudden start denying things....one more reason to do this. And would you really want to continue a relationship with them if that happened? If you feel you can handle the memories, any possible backlash from family or others associated with this person (he's not a man) then go get him! He needs to be locked away for the rest of his life. Preferrably in general population where the other inmates will make very clear what they think of his activities. But...that's just me. You are doing a good thing...a VERY good thing and while I'm terribly sorry you had to go through any of this to begin with, I'm glad you have the perseverance to seek justice. You and the others affected by this creature are in my thoughts. [/QUOTE]
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