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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 691994" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I agree with SWOT, with one exception. I wasn't there and apparently she slapped him. So if he merely reacted and slapped back without thinking, as opposed to beating or giving it a moment's thought first, I would agree neither are blameless. Granted, I've never been hit by a man - my ex for all his faults never hit me, even when I threw an iron at his head. (Long story)</p><p></p><p>But that isn't the important part. The important part is, this is a violent marriage...between the angry drunk and her slapping him and him doing whatever he did...it's bad. Away is where she needs to be.</p><p></p><p>Now IF the incident was only what I described above and IF he's willing to QUIT drinking entirely and IF they will both go to counseling...maybe then they could work on their marriage. But they are so young and these problems are happening so quickly...it might be best to just call it quits. Be glad she is self-assured enough to not stay in a violent marriage, so many women do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 691994, member: 17309"] I agree with SWOT, with one exception. I wasn't there and apparently she slapped him. So if he merely reacted and slapped back without thinking, as opposed to beating or giving it a moment's thought first, I would agree neither are blameless. Granted, I've never been hit by a man - my ex for all his faults never hit me, even when I threw an iron at his head. (Long story) But that isn't the important part. The important part is, this is a violent marriage...between the angry drunk and her slapping him and him doing whatever he did...it's bad. Away is where she needs to be. Now IF the incident was only what I described above and IF he's willing to QUIT drinking entirely and IF they will both go to counseling...maybe then they could work on their marriage. But they are so young and these problems are happening so quickly...it might be best to just call it quits. Be glad she is self-assured enough to not stay in a violent marriage, so many women do. [/QUOTE]
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