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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 170688" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Jo, </p><p> </p><p>I don't really understand your husband. It would seem to me that he would relish some alone time with his wife, mate, love and all without the drama of difficult child and MB. </p><p> </p><p>Does ANYONE think what she's saying is coming true? Nope - So since your husband is barking about open lines of communication (which MUST WORK BOTH WAYS and not just a parent blabbering all the time to an empty head and closed ears) I would tell him </p><p>1.) I've had a change of heart - SHE MUST STAY - </p><p>2.) I'm going on vacation the minute she knows YOU her Step Dad says SHE MUST STAY</p><p>3.) YOU CAN deal (husband) with fallout kid. I'll be on vacation. </p><p> </p><p>OR </p><p> </p><p>I would tell him - </p><p>1.) I think this is a good experience for difficult child - you buy the ticket(s). </p><p>2.) If it falls through - YOU buy the return tickets </p><p>3.) If MB decides it's not working for him either - then YOU pay for their return tickets. Their being difficult child & MB</p><p> </p><p>OR </p><p> </p><p>I would tell him - </p><p>1.) YOU want open lines of communication and no yelling? </p><p>2.) YOU and ME will HAVE to go to counseling NOW. </p><p>3.) THIS BENEFITS our daughter - like you said we can't put her out - she can't move - SO WE MUST find a way to keep her here where she will be miserable. Still. </p><p> </p><p>OR </p><p> </p><p>You say nothing as usual </p><p>You get an ulcer as usual </p><p>You tell difficult child to do what she wants with whatever money she's saved up for her and MB - (I would believe her telling you that one ticket costs 500 - and really it would be for 2, $250 tickets so you are paying for MB to get out of town) </p><p> </p><p>OR</p><p>You tell MB -YOU go ahead and find a place/job/money etc. and when you are settled WE will pay for difficult child to come there and live with you. (yeah) </p><p> </p><p>Sigh - </p><p>Hugs</p><p>& </p><p>Pepto<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 170688, member: 4964"] Jo, I don't really understand your husband. It would seem to me that he would relish some alone time with his wife, mate, love and all without the drama of difficult child and MB. Does ANYONE think what she's saying is coming true? Nope - So since your husband is barking about open lines of communication (which MUST WORK BOTH WAYS and not just a parent blabbering all the time to an empty head and closed ears) I would tell him 1.) I've had a change of heart - SHE MUST STAY - 2.) I'm going on vacation the minute she knows YOU her Step Dad says SHE MUST STAY 3.) YOU CAN deal (husband) with fallout kid. I'll be on vacation. OR I would tell him - 1.) I think this is a good experience for difficult child - you buy the ticket(s). 2.) If it falls through - YOU buy the return tickets 3.) If MB decides it's not working for him either - then YOU pay for their return tickets. Their being difficult child & MB OR I would tell him - 1.) YOU want open lines of communication and no yelling? 2.) YOU and ME will HAVE to go to counseling NOW. 3.) THIS BENEFITS our daughter - like you said we can't put her out - she can't move - SO WE MUST find a way to keep her here where she will be miserable. Still. OR You say nothing as usual You get an ulcer as usual You tell difficult child to do what she wants with whatever money she's saved up for her and MB - (I would believe her telling you that one ticket costs 500 - and really it would be for 2, $250 tickets so you are paying for MB to get out of town) OR You tell MB -YOU go ahead and find a place/job/money etc. and when you are settled WE will pay for difficult child to come there and live with you. (yeah) Sigh - Hugs & Pepto:sick: [/QUOTE]
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