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<blockquote data-quote="dirobb" data-source="post: 171119" data-attributes="member: 2858"><p>RELAX...YOU DESERVE IT. </p><p>congrats to easy child...I so know what you mean by them getting so done and ready to leave after two years and two difficult child's under the roof my easy child's are off to school this summer. They are relieved to be out of the daily drama. ( although this summer has been fairly calm, one difficult child is gone and one is at his bio mom for a bit)</p><p></p><p>as for dear ex, JMHO but I think you need to detach...let go you do not owe him anymore explanations. He and she should have their own relationship (however twisted it can become...maybe thats just my house) but you have raised her and your and husband's decisions regarding your home and how you handle difficult child are yours. Boo hooo if in his distorted thinking he can give you parenting advise. What he chooses to do or not do is his let him own it, I'm sure he will see the light, eventually (usually too soon) if they get to live with him. But that probably wont factor in as a choice for difficult child and MB. </p><p></p><p>Sorry if I sound bitter but I had an absent parent and have an absent parent for my easy child's. He sees them maybe once a year, calls infrequently. I included him in planning things for my children. He does not get involved. But believes he is a great dad. both easy child's are off to school and he has only offered one some help with books...but I'm sure the story will be how he helped them get through college..(on my nickle)...Anyhow, got way off there..sorry..what I mean is dont' let him try to guilt you into what you should do. You and husband know what will probably happen. </p><p></p><p>Jeeze our kiddos love to learn the hard way... </p><p></p><p>I hit the spa ... Sat morning...we're taking a road trip..alone...yeah us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dirobb, post: 171119, member: 2858"] RELAX...YOU DESERVE IT. congrats to easy child...I so know what you mean by them getting so done and ready to leave after two years and two difficult child's under the roof my easy child's are off to school this summer. They are relieved to be out of the daily drama. ( although this summer has been fairly calm, one difficult child is gone and one is at his bio mom for a bit) as for dear ex, JMHO but I think you need to detach...let go you do not owe him anymore explanations. He and she should have their own relationship (however twisted it can become...maybe thats just my house) but you have raised her and your and husband's decisions regarding your home and how you handle difficult child are yours. Boo hooo if in his distorted thinking he can give you parenting advise. What he chooses to do or not do is his let him own it, I'm sure he will see the light, eventually (usually too soon) if they get to live with him. But that probably wont factor in as a choice for difficult child and MB. Sorry if I sound bitter but I had an absent parent and have an absent parent for my easy child's. He sees them maybe once a year, calls infrequently. I included him in planning things for my children. He does not get involved. But believes he is a great dad. both easy child's are off to school and he has only offered one some help with books...but I'm sure the story will be how he helped them get through college..(on my nickle)...Anyhow, got way off there..sorry..what I mean is dont' let him try to guilt you into what you should do. You and husband know what will probably happen. Jeeze our kiddos love to learn the hard way... I hit the spa ... Sat morning...we're taking a road trip..alone...yeah us. [/QUOTE]
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