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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 520755"><p>I agree with Nancy. While it always seems that our difficult child's have these "likely stories..." I think that the benefits outweigh the risks on insisting he is re-tested immediately and restested regularly. I would definitely insist he be reinstated in the IOP. </p><p></p><p>And I would let him know that you are on his side and that you are his strongest advocate SO LONG AS HE IS CLEAN. And I would test him at home REGULARLY so you can compare to the IOPs testing. If he did actually smoke, it will send a clear signal that he will not get away with it again. If he didn't smoke, it sends a clear signal that you are in his corner. If he's thinking of smoking, he knows you will catch on. Maybe even consider a quantitative blood test at the dr to start.</p><p></p><p>When we were drug testing difficult child - we found inexpensive drug tests online at drugtestyourteen.com I am not affiliated - they have a good deal and are very nice people. </p><p></p><p>and sending you many many many {hugs}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 520755"] I agree with Nancy. While it always seems that our difficult child's have these "likely stories..." I think that the benefits outweigh the risks on insisting he is re-tested immediately and restested regularly. I would definitely insist he be reinstated in the IOP. And I would let him know that you are on his side and that you are his strongest advocate SO LONG AS HE IS CLEAN. And I would test him at home REGULARLY so you can compare to the IOPs testing. If he did actually smoke, it will send a clear signal that he will not get away with it again. If he didn't smoke, it sends a clear signal that you are in his corner. If he's thinking of smoking, he knows you will catch on. Maybe even consider a quantitative blood test at the dr to start. When we were drug testing difficult child - we found inexpensive drug tests online at drugtestyourteen.com I am not affiliated - they have a good deal and are very nice people. and sending you many many many {hugs} [/QUOTE]
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