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<blockquote data-quote="mom_in_training" data-source="post: 34915" data-attributes="member: 2727"><p>Geeze Crazymama, I too agree with what Ant'smom said, You have to take a stand. He is an adult man that seriously needs to man-up and stop acting liking a child. You think that he can't survive without you, I don't know about that. Its a gamble but you just may be surprised about what he might accomplish if he has no other choice but to do something about his behavior. Reading your post reminds me of what allot of people here deal with everyday, A troubled difficult child that in some cases is not cooperating with any of the treatment options or therapy that is provided or is available to them. I am sorry that you are having to go through this and I hope that you can encourage him to do the right thing for you, The kids and himself and get the help that he needs. Its sad that people choose to wallow in their own pity. My son is severely disabled and he has no choice as far as having to have a 24/7 caretaker (Me) to adhere to his every need. Sometimes I think to myself that he does want it to be different but he has no voice considering that he cannot communicate verbally with me. My point being is that you have a physically abled adult man that for whatever reason is choosing to not make a difference for himself and his family. Its unfortunate that we at times have to put our foot down and say "Hey this is not acceptable" and demand that that person start taking responsibilty for their disfunctional choices by getting the help that they need.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_in_training, post: 34915, member: 2727"] Geeze Crazymama, I too agree with what Ant'smom said, You have to take a stand. He is an adult man that seriously needs to man-up and stop acting liking a child. You think that he can't survive without you, I don't know about that. Its a gamble but you just may be surprised about what he might accomplish if he has no other choice but to do something about his behavior. Reading your post reminds me of what allot of people here deal with everyday, A troubled difficult child that in some cases is not cooperating with any of the treatment options or therapy that is provided or is available to them. I am sorry that you are having to go through this and I hope that you can encourage him to do the right thing for you, The kids and himself and get the help that he needs. Its sad that people choose to wallow in their own pity. My son is severely disabled and he has no choice as far as having to have a 24/7 caretaker (Me) to adhere to his every need. Sometimes I think to myself that he does want it to be different but he has no voice considering that he cannot communicate verbally with me. My point being is that you have a physically abled adult man that for whatever reason is choosing to not make a difference for himself and his family. Its unfortunate that we at times have to put our foot down and say "Hey this is not acceptable" and demand that that person start taking responsibilty for their disfunctional choices by getting the help that they need. [/QUOTE]
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