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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 572959" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Hang tough....when will difficult child be moving?(oh, I think I misunderstood.....edit....sorry) Are you going to leave in addition? husband does not understand this at all, he does not understand that his son is likely hard wired this way and even if difficult child honestly promises to never do X again, the likelyhood of his being able to keep that promise is very low without intensive support guiding his actions. Having someone not say thoughts out loud is worse to me than knowing what they are thinking so we can deal with it....difficult child will still think these things.</p><p></p><p>My son will say... "I feel like to hurt you but I am not going to do it because I know it is not right...but I am just telling you I feel that way right now".... Horrible, right? but I believe it is HUGE progress and I am proud of him for saying such things and not just impulsively hurting me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 572959, member: 12886"] Hang tough....when will difficult child be moving?(oh, I think I misunderstood.....edit....sorry) Are you going to leave in addition? husband does not understand this at all, he does not understand that his son is likely hard wired this way and even if difficult child honestly promises to never do X again, the likelyhood of his being able to keep that promise is very low without intensive support guiding his actions. Having someone not say thoughts out loud is worse to me than knowing what they are thinking so we can deal with it....difficult child will still think these things. My son will say... "I feel like to hurt you but I am not going to do it because I know it is not right...but I am just telling you I feel that way right now".... Horrible, right? but I believe it is HUGE progress and I am proud of him for saying such things and not just impulsively hurting me. [/QUOTE]
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