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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 650027" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm late to this party, but I separate judgment and love as two separate emotions. I also separate acceptance from judgment. I can easily accept that a person is not that nice or treating others well because it is a logical fact.I am incapable of not seeing a logical fact if it is right before my eyes and undeniable.</p><p></p><p>I can love somebody and not do for them if it hurts them. I would not give a loved one a vial of poison. I felt like I was doing that when I enabled my son and daughter. I felt I was impeding them from growing up and changing.</p><p></p><p>Do I judge? I can't help it. To me, you are nice to people. You are put on earth to learn how to love others and to do good things for other people. So if somebody is selfish or mean, yes, I judge, even if I love the person. But since judge and love are different to me, I can still love the person.</p><p></p><p>Hope this makes sense. Good discussion here.</p><p></p><p>Recovering, your post was amazing. Just amazing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 650027, member: 1550"] I'm late to this party, but I separate judgment and love as two separate emotions. I also separate acceptance from judgment. I can easily accept that a person is not that nice or treating others well because it is a logical fact.I am incapable of not seeing a logical fact if it is right before my eyes and undeniable. I can love somebody and not do for them if it hurts them. I would not give a loved one a vial of poison. I felt like I was doing that when I enabled my son and daughter. I felt I was impeding them from growing up and changing. Do I judge? I can't help it. To me, you are nice to people. You are put on earth to learn how to love others and to do good things for other people. So if somebody is selfish or mean, yes, I judge, even if I love the person. But since judge and love are different to me, I can still love the person. Hope this makes sense. Good discussion here. Recovering, your post was amazing. Just amazing. [/QUOTE]
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