So sorry for the loss of your dear sister. And yes our fur friends we can count on for comfort. People will disappoint I know I currently disappoint people as I am having some health issues that cause fatigue. Seems visiting just wears me out. I am better at home with my sweet fur babies. I know they do not understand and some have even stopped inviting me. My son is in jail soon to be sent to prison for 18 months. Not his first trip down this road. Meth got him there. That works on my mental health.
And now my brother is sick. Doctors are still trying to figure out sudden diabetes that goes high then low. {Plus he is anemic, THey found a mass on his pancreas. He was to see Surgeon on the 12th concerning the mass. Today is his 4th trip to ER.
That would be a 1 1/2 hour drive for me to go see him on busy interstates. I live in mountains and am not used to city driving. I feel Guilty for not going. Thinking my brother is not handling this feeling badly as he never got sick. And I do mean never.
My advice is never to visit ER, my last trip to one I was told to go home not sick enough to be there. Well ok, spent the next week throwing up and Diarrhea. I lost 40 pounds in a week. Unknown rash along with all that which cleared up and went away. The doctor did not even touch me at the ER. I have health insurance by the way. Will never go to ER I see no point in it. Again hang in there Grief is a tricky bunch of emotions to work through. Have had many loved one pass over. God bless you.