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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 106778" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Whoa! So much for "tis the season to be jolly". It should be "tis the season for depression" fa-la-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la!</p><p></p><p>How about "Deck the husband's" instead of "Deck the Halls"?</p><p></p><p>My gosh, you need a break and husband needs a wake-up call! Next thing he'll be looking for a chocolate on his pillow. </p><p></p><p>Personally, I think that husband is suffering from "Mother Syndrome". You say he hasn't slept in the same room since difficult child was born, no hugs, no kisses, no obvious signs of husband-wife affection. Sitting and expecting you to "run the show" and take care of the adult responsibilities in life. It doesn't happen all that frequently, but it's sort of a syndrome where he can't "disassociate" you from being a woman vs. being a mommy. Take a look an see if he's treating you as if you're more his mom than his wife. If you really think that this may be part of the issue, you guys need to get some counseling - both couple and individual. Once he starts to see you as his wife, things should get better.</p><p></p><p>Either that or a remote controlled spring in his recliner that you can use to bounce his a** up and get him moving around the house.</p><p></p><p>Plain and simple truth: YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! </p><p></p><p>With a lot of hugs,</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 106778, member: 3814"] Whoa! So much for "tis the season to be jolly". It should be "tis the season for depression" fa-la-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la! How about "Deck the husband's" instead of "Deck the Halls"? My gosh, you need a break and husband needs a wake-up call! Next thing he'll be looking for a chocolate on his pillow. Personally, I think that husband is suffering from "Mother Syndrome". You say he hasn't slept in the same room since difficult child was born, no hugs, no kisses, no obvious signs of husband-wife affection. Sitting and expecting you to "run the show" and take care of the adult responsibilities in life. It doesn't happen all that frequently, but it's sort of a syndrome where he can't "disassociate" you from being a woman vs. being a mommy. Take a look an see if he's treating you as if you're more his mom than his wife. If you really think that this may be part of the issue, you guys need to get some counseling - both couple and individual. Once he starts to see you as his wife, things should get better. Either that or a remote controlled spring in his recliner that you can use to bounce his a** up and get him moving around the house. Plain and simple truth: YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! With a lot of hugs, Beth [/QUOTE]
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