My mom informed me that because grandma died last year she rreally didnt want to be at home, they decided they would come to my house. Ok that great! Then she says they would be bringing my grandson along. Cool..even better, Then she mentions they haevent told my daughter the plans. What if she wants her son for the holiday?? Probably better let mom know aboit all these plannings taking place. And m y son....I dont evevnthink tjey want to invite him :C He has been th black sheep for a while but i dont eve get to see him and would like him to come.. Its starting to get awkward and I dont wasnt to not stand up for my kids, I dont want anyone left out because of the past,not sure what to say. help!!