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Do you want this apology now Merris? what's the difference if it's in 6mo or a year from now?


I can only imagine what you are feeling. Although you sound much stronger than I've ever heard you, I do hear a little vindictivness. Believe me, I'm not judging in any way, shape, or form. I understand completely what difficult child has done to you and I agree that an apology needs to come.  I guess my point is why?, why now? why right this very minute?


I know you will never, ever forget what difficult child did. I do like the idea of using a counselor/mediator to monitor a session where all the hurt can be brought out to the open. If difficult child is not willing to talk about it though...it may not be the right time. That doesn't mean though that it can't happen in the future..


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