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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 416010" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>i'm adding onto my own thread.... lolya know me <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>thing is counselor said happy marriages are intimate 2 times a week on average if more happens than great. his need is hyper sexual. he said i think it may be from the prior marriage (ex has everyday at least once a day; probably trying to convince herself she wanst' gay subconsciously) which is understandable, and also his need to feel "secure" it's the one thing that makes the insecurities go away.</p><p> </p><p>he said him expecting almost everynight is not the average at all. i just felt so relieved i guess to hear someone finally say it black and white for me. nevermind the lying and other issues. i told him even if i can write down teh good things about him try to find that love again, i think if he doesnt' address this issue i'll ware down, i'm getting older his work schedule is insane and i can't keep up. i shouldnt' have to feel like "i have to" either...... it should happen when it happens naturally..... he said AGREED.</p><p> </p><p>its' absurd even with this hanging i'm still partially happy right now. i'm def. changing for the better i can feel it in my bones, iv'e waited a long time for this. should be interesting to see where I'll be in a years time. he asked me I said probably working,writing on the side trying to get published, working with the horses (i'm donating time to a handicapped theraputic riding place this weekend coming), painting, beinga mom seeing my friends. a full life. where he fits i have no clue</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 416010, member: 4514"] i'm adding onto my own thread.... lolya know me :) thing is counselor said happy marriages are intimate 2 times a week on average if more happens than great. his need is hyper sexual. he said i think it may be from the prior marriage (ex has everyday at least once a day; probably trying to convince herself she wanst' gay subconsciously) which is understandable, and also his need to feel "secure" it's the one thing that makes the insecurities go away. he said him expecting almost everynight is not the average at all. i just felt so relieved i guess to hear someone finally say it black and white for me. nevermind the lying and other issues. i told him even if i can write down teh good things about him try to find that love again, i think if he doesnt' address this issue i'll ware down, i'm getting older his work schedule is insane and i can't keep up. i shouldnt' have to feel like "i have to" either...... it should happen when it happens naturally..... he said AGREED. its' absurd even with this hanging i'm still partially happy right now. i'm def. changing for the better i can feel it in my bones, iv'e waited a long time for this. should be interesting to see where I'll be in a years time. he asked me I said probably working,writing on the side trying to get published, working with the horses (i'm donating time to a handicapped theraputic riding place this weekend coming), painting, beinga mom seeing my friends. a full life. where he fits i have no clue [/QUOTE]
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