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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 55971" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I opted to "go it alone" after GFGmom was born and my then husband</p><p>and I could not get on the same page. It was FAR more difficult</p><p>than I anticipated. It was FAR more difficult on the children</p><p>than I ever thought. </p><p></p><p>Do I regret my choice? No. on the other hand, I do want to share that "some"</p><p>of my reasoning was based on realizing that we had been married</p><p>ten years and things were not as I had expected. You have been</p><p>married twenty years plus, and having passed that milestone I do</p><p>believe that spouses periodically look at their life and say</p><p>"what to heck have I done!"</p><p></p><p>A whole bunch of new problems pop up after a divorce. You kindof</p><p>trade an existing set for a new set. My Ex is still made at me for the divorce....yep, it was l970....and he still uses the </p><p>children (now middle aged, of course) AND the grandchildren as a</p><p>means to hurt me.</p><p></p><p>The moral of this long responsive post is.....try to make sure you analyze all the areas that could/would be impacted. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 55971, member: 35"] I opted to "go it alone" after GFGmom was born and my then husband and I could not get on the same page. It was FAR more difficult than I anticipated. It was FAR more difficult on the children than I ever thought. Do I regret my choice? No. on the other hand, I do want to share that "some" of my reasoning was based on realizing that we had been married ten years and things were not as I had expected. You have been married twenty years plus, and having passed that milestone I do believe that spouses periodically look at their life and say "what to heck have I done!" A whole bunch of new problems pop up after a divorce. You kindof trade an existing set for a new set. My Ex is still made at me for the divorce....yep, it was l970....and he still uses the children (now middle aged, of course) AND the grandchildren as a means to hurt me. The moral of this long responsive post is.....try to make sure you analyze all the areas that could/would be impacted. DDD [/QUOTE]
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