This morning difficult child 1 asked again for a folder for her math class. A simple folder. She walked out the door without one, because I asked her why I should go out of my way to do something kind for her, something she wants, when she goes out of her way to treat our family like koi. I asked her why I should give her a simple folder when she didn't thank anyone for any of the gifts they gave her, using their own money (she tossed them to the side), but, most importantly, why I should go out of my way to get her a folder for math when she went out of her way a week or so ago to tell people I "jammed my finger in her privates" when I did nothing of the sort! I asked why should I go out of my way get her a folder when she went out of her way to harm my character in such a horrible, horrible way and doesn't feel badly at all. Not at all. She didn't blink. I told her to have the teacher call me, and I will let her know why. difficult child 1 turned around and walked away. Silently. Im so tired of all of this koi. I really, really am. I'm mad that I am legally obligated to put myself in harms way day after day or I will be the one in trouble. So tired of it all.