Sending supportive hugs. There are a bunch of donkey tails in the various parts of the system....and then, on occasion, you find a genuinely caring bright person.
Tell Baby J that I have a cold (again!) and I know just how he
feels! Misery loves company I hear.
Re the next pregnancy possibility, if you don't DETACH Melissa
you will end up following my lead and that is not the way to go.
DDD