She actually said she doesn't want you to make money off the baby? HELLOOO? What an idiot. That right there tells you she's a jerk. See what her recommendations are and if she's off base, report her. I would.
difficult child should just take ownership of her problems and stop getting you involved (I am SUCH a hypocrite). There is no reason for her to tell you about this potential pregnancy. What are you supposed to do about it?!?!
Sorry if I'm a hypocrite but you have been through so much I hate to see her put you through the wringer again.
merris