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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 312212" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Fingers crossed that he processes this info and it affects his behavior when his thinking is distorted. I think it will take restating the facts a few more times before it really clicks. I suspect that you will have to remind him of your conversation at the time of violence over and over for him to see the correlation. (sort of like how we train our pets to not mess in the house. The correction has to be immediate for them to understand the correlation between behavior and consequence)</p><p>Saying it once and the light bulb turning on works on easy child's(sometimes) but it hasn't been my experience that it is a one time deal. Sort of like planting a seed in the garden. You have to repeatedly attend to the necessary tasks that will nurture that seed and make it grow. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad he showed some of the kinder parts of his heart to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 312212, member: 3"] Fingers crossed that he processes this info and it affects his behavior when his thinking is distorted. I think it will take restating the facts a few more times before it really clicks. I suspect that you will have to remind him of your conversation at the time of violence over and over for him to see the correlation. (sort of like how we train our pets to not mess in the house. The correction has to be immediate for them to understand the correlation between behavior and consequence) Saying it once and the light bulb turning on works on easy child's(sometimes) but it hasn't been my experience that it is a one time deal. Sort of like planting a seed in the garden. You have to repeatedly attend to the necessary tasks that will nurture that seed and make it grow. I'm glad he showed some of the kinder parts of his heart to you. [/QUOTE]
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