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<blockquote data-quote="tired Cheryl" data-source="post: 82908" data-attributes="member: 4109"><p>Hi, Gals:</p><p></p><p>yes, hindsight is 20/20. I would have loved to have thought of having difficult child throw the fries away himself. <u>Usually</u> my mind <u>is </u>working on these type of ideas constantly. </p><p>He has trained me well over the past four years. But with the physical and mental strain there will sure to be lapses in my judgement and then I pay a HUGE penalty.</p><p></p><p>Also, my own feeling is that it was not the "triggers" like specifically the throwing away the fries that is the problem. Many times I have avoided one landmind only to have one blow up in my face just minutes later. I really feel like if it hadn't been the fries it would have been <u>something</u> else very shortly thereafter (someone else pushing the elevator button before him, the way I drive the car, the parking space I chose, countless other things.) It seems like he is a volcano with lava ready to errupt regardless. He was even wearing his volcano t-shirt yesterday.</p><p></p><p>That being said, I will continue the mental and physical gymnastics of thinking through EVERY darn thing I say and do in an attempt to avoid horrible scenes like yesterday.</p><p>What a way to live!</p><p> :smile:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tired Cheryl, post: 82908, member: 4109"] Hi, Gals: yes, hindsight is 20/20. I would have loved to have thought of having difficult child throw the fries away himself. <u>Usually</u> my mind <u>is </u>working on these type of ideas constantly. He has trained me well over the past four years. But with the physical and mental strain there will sure to be lapses in my judgement and then I pay a HUGE penalty. Also, my own feeling is that it was not the "triggers" like specifically the throwing away the fries that is the problem. Many times I have avoided one landmind only to have one blow up in my face just minutes later. I really feel like if it hadn't been the fries it would have been <u>something</u> else very shortly thereafter (someone else pushing the elevator button before him, the way I drive the car, the parking space I chose, countless other things.) It seems like he is a volcano with lava ready to errupt regardless. He was even wearing his volcano t-shirt yesterday. That being said, I will continue the mental and physical gymnastics of thinking through EVERY darn thing I say and do in an attempt to avoid horrible scenes like yesterday. What a way to live! [img]:smile:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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