To my knowledge my Difficult Child does pot only, but what do I know? My greatest concern is that he will drive while under ANY influence. My older son was straight as an arrow, no drugs, no alcohol, no speeding, no horseplay....but was driving and he and two others were killed in a freak accident (that's what the police called it). That being said, as hard as I try to detach and move on, that fear almost consumes me daily. How does a mother do that? He lives with his father so I have even less input. Why? Why? The fear of going through that again is almost unbearable. Not sure I'd make it through anything happening to Difficult Child or him causing an accident of that magnitude.
Yes, Rina, I think you are right. They just don't care...about themselves, family, etc. They.Just.Dont.Care.
