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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 395772" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Janet i just caught what you wrote at the end, I dont' think it's the "lack" of love for us, I think it's just their issues that superceed common logic and their true emotions when it comes to toxic ppl like this. What they've been thru etc etc blah blah....... i think in their own distorted way they do love us or care it's just their too messed up to know how to show it. anyway that's my thought.</p><p> </p><p>my mom until just recently never said the words i love you except when i was very small and as of late with all the difficult child madness i've been getting that via emails. She's growing old was softening a tiny bit and realizing wow i'm messed up and began to show her true emotions. My Mom could spend years literally years in therapy. We argue about it at times i told her i'd rather spend a lifetime in therapy than a lifetime messed up. She said not everyone can do what you did or will do. I said what? She said well you looked at junk for what it was not what you wanted it to be and you dealt with the emotions that followed and cleaned it out. I said yup because i was making too many mistakes in my own life to keep on that way. If my Mom ever went into therapy her 4 glasses of wine a night would increase to a bottle a night. she has alot of regrets and alot of guilt.</p><p> </p><p>yet you would think that would make her be nicer right? LOL. umm NO!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 395772, member: 4514"] Janet i just caught what you wrote at the end, I dont' think it's the "lack" of love for us, I think it's just their issues that superceed common logic and their true emotions when it comes to toxic ppl like this. What they've been thru etc etc blah blah....... i think in their own distorted way they do love us or care it's just their too messed up to know how to show it. anyway that's my thought. my mom until just recently never said the words i love you except when i was very small and as of late with all the difficult child madness i've been getting that via emails. She's growing old was softening a tiny bit and realizing wow i'm messed up and began to show her true emotions. My Mom could spend years literally years in therapy. We argue about it at times i told her i'd rather spend a lifetime in therapy than a lifetime messed up. She said not everyone can do what you did or will do. I said what? She said well you looked at junk for what it was not what you wanted it to be and you dealt with the emotions that followed and cleaned it out. I said yup because i was making too many mistakes in my own life to keep on that way. If my Mom ever went into therapy her 4 glasses of wine a night would increase to a bottle a night. she has alot of regrets and alot of guilt. yet you would think that would make her be nicer right? LOL. umm NO!! [/QUOTE]
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