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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 238103" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>Bran155: thank you. I am aware that ultimately I will be the one saying nO, again, and then I will be showered with the dissapointment by my son and other family members. And then the unexceptable alternatives will, agian, be offered to meet their wishes when in reality the father does not have any visit plans himself and never has. Then I will also recieve the negative attention that centers on how I should percieve the matter (historically and relative to reality) ThEIR way. Oh yes I am well acquainted and will be the identified target for the whole matter..AGAIN.</p><p> </p><p>I apreciate the support. I do need the affirmation. </p><p></p><p>Best I Can: that is a good idea. And I do not need to be in a group talking with people who have pain as well. I need treatment that works for me and I have no means of obtaining that care. what I am offered is perscription medications that are not treating the condition they act to buffy the pain of the untreated condition. And pt that exaserbates the problem unless treated with chiropractic first.</p><p></p><p>the only ant steps that are occuring is the tic toc of time and it is my life and my time and I am vetching over the quality of life issue that taking ant type steps to do the daily things that are so time consumming in the manner that I do them and are never to completion.</p><p>for example; when I did get a little help toward making the changes when my son was out of control it left a pile of things on the floor of my new now room. Picking each of those items off the floor and reorganing them now that they are tossed like a salade Is A) a painfull strenous set of activities for me. B) requires that I have all these things spread out to get them in order. C) means that I will be engaged to do this task for days on end as I can not merely set out to do so with anything but 'ant steps'</p><p>What none of these things are doing FOR me is moving ME forward healthfully in any meaningful manner. this illustrates how when someone in our society needs specific things for "ease" our orientation is locked into the conduct of the normal life tasks that healthy people take for granted in terms of wether they "like" one standard of another and wether they "like" doing those simple time and activity hendged things. </p><p>What is "normal' for me to hear is that in some manner it is fine and dandy for me to do these types of things in a painful manner and to have that requilre huge swathes of my time and what is of no consequence whatsoever is that I am not </p><p>having access to treatments I do benefit from and the things I do need to get my physical supportive activity to be doing appropriate motions for my health needs.</p><p></p><p>I can not afford the gas costs to go to some group meeting to jaw over our neglected conditions and the **** that is charged for by medicaid in lue of what does help. or to mount the "fight" that would pursued the chiropractic community to stop being 'businesses' and do the work of pushing the care into the realm that medicaid would pay a lowerfee for if they ever will.</p><p></p><p>i am way way past the point of having a hug or hand hold matter to me. Decades</p><p>in fact. I went to work and did my job and never hurt anybody. And what I am constantly beseiged with are the lawyers jingles that minimize the suffering of those who are disabled from parcipation in their own lives and livelyhoods. And when the stupid stupid indifferance to children in schools is continually added to that first hand knowledge and it also requires me to spoon feed educators who spend their work life neglecting my kid anyway my blood is boiling and all I can do is vent.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 238103, member: 6271"] Bran155: thank you. I am aware that ultimately I will be the one saying nO, again, and then I will be showered with the dissapointment by my son and other family members. And then the unexceptable alternatives will, agian, be offered to meet their wishes when in reality the father does not have any visit plans himself and never has. Then I will also recieve the negative attention that centers on how I should percieve the matter (historically and relative to reality) ThEIR way. Oh yes I am well acquainted and will be the identified target for the whole matter..AGAIN. I apreciate the support. I do need the affirmation. Best I Can: that is a good idea. And I do not need to be in a group talking with people who have pain as well. I need treatment that works for me and I have no means of obtaining that care. what I am offered is perscription medications that are not treating the condition they act to buffy the pain of the untreated condition. And pt that exaserbates the problem unless treated with chiropractic first. the only ant steps that are occuring is the tic toc of time and it is my life and my time and I am vetching over the quality of life issue that taking ant type steps to do the daily things that are so time consumming in the manner that I do them and are never to completion. for example; when I did get a little help toward making the changes when my son was out of control it left a pile of things on the floor of my new now room. Picking each of those items off the floor and reorganing them now that they are tossed like a salade Is A) a painfull strenous set of activities for me. B) requires that I have all these things spread out to get them in order. C) means that I will be engaged to do this task for days on end as I can not merely set out to do so with anything but 'ant steps' What none of these things are doing FOR me is moving ME forward healthfully in any meaningful manner. this illustrates how when someone in our society needs specific things for "ease" our orientation is locked into the conduct of the normal life tasks that healthy people take for granted in terms of wether they "like" one standard of another and wether they "like" doing those simple time and activity hendged things. What is "normal' for me to hear is that in some manner it is fine and dandy for me to do these types of things in a painful manner and to have that requilre huge swathes of my time and what is of no consequence whatsoever is that I am not having access to treatments I do benefit from and the things I do need to get my physical supportive activity to be doing appropriate motions for my health needs. I can not afford the gas costs to go to some group meeting to jaw over our neglected conditions and the **** that is charged for by medicaid in lue of what does help. or to mount the "fight" that would pursued the chiropractic community to stop being 'businesses' and do the work of pushing the care into the realm that medicaid would pay a lowerfee for if they ever will. i am way way past the point of having a hug or hand hold matter to me. Decades in fact. I went to work and did my job and never hurt anybody. And what I am constantly beseiged with are the lawyers jingles that minimize the suffering of those who are disabled from parcipation in their own lives and livelyhoods. And when the stupid stupid indifferance to children in schools is continually added to that first hand knowledge and it also requires me to spoon feed educators who spend their work life neglecting my kid anyway my blood is boiling and all I can do is vent. [/QUOTE]
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