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<blockquote data-quote="moonglow" data-source="post: 320346" data-attributes="member: 256"><p>Thanks for the heads up on this. Nate will be almost 17 when ex gets out...not a little kid anymore and more then likely will be taller, bigger and stronger then his fast aging dad. I think all those years of doing drug, drinking and smoking caught up with him...plus I have always heard prison ages a person too. I don't think ex would want to physically hurt Nate...not at all. In his own twisted way, he does care about him and inspite of being in prison all these years hasn't just given up on wanting a relationship with him. Nate will be old enough to not have to endure any **** from his dad either...no longer a helpless little child his dad can leave all alone in his house for who knows how long...and no longer would Nate have to sit and watch his dad drink either and endure his verbal abuse. </p><p></p><p>I have alot to think about before then I realize. I think he will be old enough to refuse to go see him if he doesn't want too. My concern though is ex will of course blame me saying I turned Nate against him...when ex did that all by himself actually..</p><p></p><p>If ex tries to take me to court to force Nate to see him on visitations..all I have to do is get his therapist to come and testify on Nate's behalf. And I can't image a judge trying to force a 17 year old to do visitations anyway. But crazier things have happened in a court of law..but like I said I think years of medication and therapy ought to speak on Nate's behalf in that him being with his dad can't be a good thing at all. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry you had to go through this with your ex...sound horrible. Glad your child is safe now though.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="moonglow, post: 320346, member: 256"] Thanks for the heads up on this. Nate will be almost 17 when ex gets out...not a little kid anymore and more then likely will be taller, bigger and stronger then his fast aging dad. I think all those years of doing drug, drinking and smoking caught up with him...plus I have always heard prison ages a person too. I don't think ex would want to physically hurt Nate...not at all. In his own twisted way, he does care about him and inspite of being in prison all these years hasn't just given up on wanting a relationship with him. Nate will be old enough to not have to endure any **** from his dad either...no longer a helpless little child his dad can leave all alone in his house for who knows how long...and no longer would Nate have to sit and watch his dad drink either and endure his verbal abuse. I have alot to think about before then I realize. I think he will be old enough to refuse to go see him if he doesn't want too. My concern though is ex will of course blame me saying I turned Nate against him...when ex did that all by himself actually.. If ex tries to take me to court to force Nate to see him on visitations..all I have to do is get his therapist to come and testify on Nate's behalf. And I can't image a judge trying to force a 17 year old to do visitations anyway. But crazier things have happened in a court of law..but like I said I think years of medication and therapy ought to speak on Nate's behalf in that him being with his dad can't be a good thing at all. I am sorry you had to go through this with your ex...sound horrible. Glad your child is safe now though. [/QUOTE]
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