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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 193212" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Janet, I'm not ignoring your posts or opinions. I just think your "stuck" on believing that is the problem, just like you think I'm "stuck" in this step of the process. He has TEC book on his desk and they do use those methods there- that isn't the problem with the intern, at least it wasn't the other day.</p><p></p><p>Part of it is a trust issue, part of it is in what he was trying to focus on and the fact that I have lived through this before and each and every time, it makes things worse for us. Since he and I had discussed these things before-hand, I thought we were on the same page. If we weren't, he could have told me that. I would have held no grudge if he'd said "I do things such-a-such way and that won't change- like it or leave it"- I could have made an informed decision. That didn't happen, so I feel I could not trust him at this point. I specificly brought up things like this to discuss with him before and he acted like we were on the same page about these issues. I think he was just patronizing me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 193212, member: 3699"] Janet, I'm not ignoring your posts or opinions. I just think your "stuck" on believing that is the problem, just like you think I'm "stuck" in this step of the process. He has TEC book on his desk and they do use those methods there- that isn't the problem with the intern, at least it wasn't the other day. Part of it is a trust issue, part of it is in what he was trying to focus on and the fact that I have lived through this before and each and every time, it makes things worse for us. Since he and I had discussed these things before-hand, I thought we were on the same page. If we weren't, he could have told me that. I would have held no grudge if he'd said "I do things such-a-such way and that won't change- like it or leave it"- I could have made an informed decision. That didn't happen, so I feel I could not trust him at this point. I specificly brought up things like this to discuss with him before and he acted like we were on the same page about these issues. I think he was just patronizing me. [/QUOTE]
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