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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 464236" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Shari...</p><p></p><p>I know a bit more about the whole situation and... It <em>has</em> to be all husband. He <em>has</em> to do it himself. because honestly? He will let it all fall on you after a good showing.</p><p></p><p>I don't think cgfg is happy at her mother's. I'm pretty sure you agree. And you like her - as a person. Similar to the way I love O, but of course the situation <em>is</em> different. I really think the behavior would be better... Around <em>you</em>... But maybe not so much, husband.</p><p></p><p>I'm going to give you a suggestion I didn't want to hear, but I finally did it, and I'm doing better (no anxiety attacks, for one!)... STEP BACK.</p><p></p><p>Your husband needs to resolve the custody situation <em>on his own</em>.</p><p></p><p>YOU need to decide what you're going to do about the other koi. Don't let cgfg's well-being hold you in an untenable situation. I know you care about her. But... My husband stepped up. Things got better. If he hadn't... I would've had to let O and J go. And it would have broken my heart.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 464236, member: 6705"] Shari... I know a bit more about the whole situation and... It [I]has[/I] to be all husband. He [I]has[/I] to do it himself. because honestly? He will let it all fall on you after a good showing. I don't think cgfg is happy at her mother's. I'm pretty sure you agree. And you like her - as a person. Similar to the way I love O, but of course the situation [I]is[/I] different. I really think the behavior would be better... Around [I]you[/I]... But maybe not so much, husband. I'm going to give you a suggestion I didn't want to hear, but I finally did it, and I'm doing better (no anxiety attacks, for one!)... STEP BACK. Your husband needs to resolve the custody situation [I]on his own[/I]. YOU need to decide what you're going to do about the other koi. Don't let cgfg's well-being hold you in an untenable situation. I know you care about her. But... My husband stepped up. Things got better. If he hadn't... I would've had to let O and J go. And it would have broken my heart. :hugs: [/QUOTE]
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