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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 725980" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>GS </p><p></p><p>Bravo for not giving him any money! I got guilted into giving mine $7 the other day. </p><p></p><p>With the blame and aggression I have been there and in some ways an still there. Please be careful as manipulation and aggression is bad enough and we should not have to tolerate it. It can lead to violence and theft. My son has made an attempt to be physically aggressive with me one. He saw the look in my eyes and backed off. He did recent snatch phone when I was attempting to call 911. Zero tolerance for any of his behaviour. Which is why he is hanging at his GFs parents place. He can sleep with his girl, drink mad smoke pot. It will be short lived. These scenarios always are. </p><p></p><p>We are now in the position that if our son does not go to rehab he will go to jail and then get sentenced and have prison time. We are not proud of the fact that we had him arrested but his actions lead us to having to have him arrested and that is a tough lesson he will have to deal with on his own terms. </p><p></p><p>Be good to yourself. Perhaps next time he begins to be abusive towards you make him get out of the car. If he refuses to leave step out and call 999. They use the money for drugs. My son used his money for a weeks pass to the gym I made him send me a picture of the receipt. He had a gym membership but we canceled it as he never went.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 725980, member: 21895"] GS Bravo for not giving him any money! I got guilted into giving mine $7 the other day. With the blame and aggression I have been there and in some ways an still there. Please be careful as manipulation and aggression is bad enough and we should not have to tolerate it. It can lead to violence and theft. My son has made an attempt to be physically aggressive with me one. He saw the look in my eyes and backed off. He did recent snatch phone when I was attempting to call 911. Zero tolerance for any of his behaviour. Which is why he is hanging at his GFs parents place. He can sleep with his girl, drink mad smoke pot. It will be short lived. These scenarios always are. We are now in the position that if our son does not go to rehab he will go to jail and then get sentenced and have prison time. We are not proud of the fact that we had him arrested but his actions lead us to having to have him arrested and that is a tough lesson he will have to deal with on his own terms. Be good to yourself. Perhaps next time he begins to be abusive towards you make him get out of the car. If he refuses to leave step out and call 999. They use the money for drugs. My son used his money for a weeks pass to the gym I made him send me a picture of the receipt. He had a gym membership but we canceled it as he never went. [/QUOTE]
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