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Most difficult years of my life
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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 726097" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>One hour at a time. Write down your boudaries and expectations. Share them make them real. </p><p></p><p>I know it is hard trust me. Our son was arrested when he was living rough on the streets and I was so broken down about it I voted for weeks feeling it was all my fault. </p><p></p><p>I didn’t choose to drug and behave badly. I didn’t chose to break our family rules time and time again I didn’t chose to stay in the streets and not go to a shelter. My son did that all of n his own. </p><p></p><p>You know what I felt sorry for him we our him in a hotel for a few days and allowed him to come home with the promise of going to rehab. He continued to act badly, refused rehab, stole from us and was arrested again. Wash rinse and repeat. </p><p></p><p>He is now with us waiting for rehab. He has pending charges and his life is a wreck. I do not know if I can have him come back to love with us or not after rehab. But for today he either choose to live by our rules or he can leave. He has found a girlfriend who’s mom let’s him squat at their place. Why would he come home if he can do as he pleases at her house and they are allowed to sleep together. </p><p></p><p>My house my rules and they aren’t going to change.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 726097, member: 21895"] One hour at a time. Write down your boudaries and expectations. Share them make them real. I know it is hard trust me. Our son was arrested when he was living rough on the streets and I was so broken down about it I voted for weeks feeling it was all my fault. I didn’t choose to drug and behave badly. I didn’t chose to break our family rules time and time again I didn’t chose to stay in the streets and not go to a shelter. My son did that all of n his own. You know what I felt sorry for him we our him in a hotel for a few days and allowed him to come home with the promise of going to rehab. He continued to act badly, refused rehab, stole from us and was arrested again. Wash rinse and repeat. He is now with us waiting for rehab. He has pending charges and his life is a wreck. I do not know if I can have him come back to love with us or not after rehab. But for today he either choose to live by our rules or he can leave. He has found a girlfriend who’s mom let’s him squat at their place. Why would he come home if he can do as he pleases at her house and they are allowed to sleep together. My house my rules and they aren’t going to change. [/QUOTE]
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