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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 705783" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I don't think she is going to want an official custody change. She seems the type to want it done unofficially, especially if a reason must be named. And when she finds out that she will have to pay child support, watch out. I hope your attorney can make her see reason and that this is in the best interest of everyone. </p><p></p><p>You may have to get creative to find child care so you can work, but it can be done. Small towns usually work together far better than big cities, esp rural small areas. Ask at the local school about before/after school care, sports, etc... Also check out the children's activities at the public library. These are great places to meet people with kids and ask them what they do for child care. Sometimes you hear that people are home with their kids, which usually means a neighbor watches several families children. You can also check bulletin boards outside groceries and bookstores and in other places for signs for before and after school child care. Just be sure to run at least a basic background check on anyone you are considering, and to look them up on your state's sex offender registry (and any neighboring state's registry, esp if you are within an hour of a state line).</p><p></p><p>I am sorry your ex is so cruel to your son. This type of abuse is awful and inexcusable. The sooner you can get your son away from her, the better. I hope you can find a better therapist, pref a male one,, for your son. Why a male one? I think that for the most part, boys respond better to male therapists and girls respond better to female therapists. Of course it isn't always true, but as a general rule, it is what I use when looking for doctors and therapists for my kids. </p><p></p><p>I hope the storm doesn't do any damage, and that you have good news in the words when you come back to us in a couple of days.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 705783, member: 1233"] I don't think she is going to want an official custody change. She seems the type to want it done unofficially, especially if a reason must be named. And when she finds out that she will have to pay child support, watch out. I hope your attorney can make her see reason and that this is in the best interest of everyone. You may have to get creative to find child care so you can work, but it can be done. Small towns usually work together far better than big cities, esp rural small areas. Ask at the local school about before/after school care, sports, etc... Also check out the children's activities at the public library. These are great places to meet people with kids and ask them what they do for child care. Sometimes you hear that people are home with their kids, which usually means a neighbor watches several families children. You can also check bulletin boards outside groceries and bookstores and in other places for signs for before and after school child care. Just be sure to run at least a basic background check on anyone you are considering, and to look them up on your state's sex offender registry (and any neighboring state's registry, esp if you are within an hour of a state line). I am sorry your ex is so cruel to your son. This type of abuse is awful and inexcusable. The sooner you can get your son away from her, the better. I hope you can find a better therapist, pref a male one,, for your son. Why a male one? I think that for the most part, boys respond better to male therapists and girls respond better to female therapists. Of course it isn't always true, but as a general rule, it is what I use when looking for doctors and therapists for my kids. I hope the storm doesn't do any damage, and that you have good news in the words when you come back to us in a couple of days. [/QUOTE]
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