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Moved my son to live with Bio-Dad :(
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 387696" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Your mother is completely wrong and grossly out of line.</p><p> </p><p>I do know how hard this is. I had to move my son to my parents' home a few years ago. My father was the only person who could handle him when he raged. Of course Gpa is as much Aspie as Wiz is, so Gpa just out stubborned him.</p><p> </p><p>Your heart will feel like it is broken for a few months. It will get better gradually, and a doctor and therapist iwll help greatly. What you did was totally unselfish and one of the greatest gifts a mother could give her child. That kind of love should be celebrated for it truly is the most real love that exists. </p><p> </p><p>In a few months you will be able to begin to repair the damage in your heart and soul. You will be able to look at photos of your child and smile, then maybe even laugh after a few more weeks or months. </p><p> </p><p>Remember that you not only moved your son to a place where he could get the help he needs, you also protected him. You kept your son from doing real, lasting harm to you or anyone else. Now he can grow up WITHOUT the kind of soul destroying guilt that would have come later if he had done the kind of harm to you or someone else that results in lasting physical damage or death. Knowing that you hurt your mother badly enough to put her into the hospital or worse is something that is incredibly hard to recover from. </p><p> </p><p>YOU made sure that your son can grow up and live his life without that guilt, and it took a lot of pain and sacrifice on your part to do that. It truly was a HUGE gift to do that.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry you are hurting so badly. Feel free to vent here and if you want to ask anything about how I got through it, just PM me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 387696, member: 1233"] Your mother is completely wrong and grossly out of line. I do know how hard this is. I had to move my son to my parents' home a few years ago. My father was the only person who could handle him when he raged. Of course Gpa is as much Aspie as Wiz is, so Gpa just out stubborned him. Your heart will feel like it is broken for a few months. It will get better gradually, and a doctor and therapist iwll help greatly. What you did was totally unselfish and one of the greatest gifts a mother could give her child. That kind of love should be celebrated for it truly is the most real love that exists. In a few months you will be able to begin to repair the damage in your heart and soul. You will be able to look at photos of your child and smile, then maybe even laugh after a few more weeks or months. Remember that you not only moved your son to a place where he could get the help he needs, you also protected him. You kept your son from doing real, lasting harm to you or anyone else. Now he can grow up WITHOUT the kind of soul destroying guilt that would have come later if he had done the kind of harm to you or someone else that results in lasting physical damage or death. Knowing that you hurt your mother badly enough to put her into the hospital or worse is something that is incredibly hard to recover from. YOU made sure that your son can grow up and live his life without that guilt, and it took a lot of pain and sacrifice on your part to do that. It truly was a HUGE gift to do that. I am sorry you are hurting so badly. Feel free to vent here and if you want to ask anything about how I got through it, just PM me. [/QUOTE]
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