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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 84323" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Please do not sign any releases that make you uncomfortable. These services are not supposed to be a judgment on your parenting; the reality is that it's easier to blame the parent then to figure out why difficult child is exhibiting the behaviors & making the choices he does.</p><p></p><p>I'd ask why release forms for information that is specific to you alone would be signed. This is about difficult child. </p><p></p><p>Additionally, this is supposed to be a "team" effort. I'd remind the team that just recently the reward system wasn't very successful. That you need a different, more realistic approach. Don't come across defensive - just the facts, ma'am, state just the facts.</p><p></p><p>Before all is said & done, we've always had a treatment plan in writing presented to us before anything significant is started in our home. It's to be signed by both parties first.</p><p></p><p>Remember this isn't about you - it's to help you cope; more importantly to teach difficult child better, healthier life skills & the ability to make healthy safe choices.</p><p></p><p>Keep us updated on the meeting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 84323, member: 393"] Please do not sign any releases that make you uncomfortable. These services are not supposed to be a judgment on your parenting; the reality is that it's easier to blame the parent then to figure out why difficult child is exhibiting the behaviors & making the choices he does. I'd ask why release forms for information that is specific to you alone would be signed. This is about difficult child. Additionally, this is supposed to be a "team" effort. I'd remind the team that just recently the reward system wasn't very successful. That you need a different, more realistic approach. Don't come across defensive - just the facts, ma'am, state just the facts. Before all is said & done, we've always had a treatment plan in writing presented to us before anything significant is started in our home. It's to be signed by both parties first. Remember this isn't about you - it's to help you cope; more importantly to teach difficult child better, healthier life skills & the ability to make healthy safe choices. Keep us updated on the meeting. [/QUOTE]
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