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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 695930" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hey BG, it's been a while, I am glad you posted, but sorry for your need to. I think we go through a kaleidoscope of emotions processing all of this. These are our beloveds after all and their choices are heart and gut wrenching. Then there is that manipulation factor that just twists the knife in further.</p><p>My latest mantra is that our d cs will do what they want to do, regardless of what "help" we give or do not give. OMG, BG, can you even imagine going through the 10 year thing all over again? I can't, I WON'T!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>After reading this I thought, we should have a thread on responses, well there probably is one......yes there is but a new one......</p><p>So here goes</p><p></p><p><strong>"But, You're my mother"</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p>Yes I am and I love you, I won't be around forever, <em>learn to be self sufficient.</em></p><p>I love you, but I matter, too.</p><p>You can do this thing called life, and so MUST I.</p><p>Life is short and I am going to live it the best I can, you should do the same.</p><p>I love you very much dear (CLICK=hang up FIRST)</p><p>Oh, its you, I am kind of fuzzy, just woke up and I had this awesome dream that you were doing well, living your life to the fullest........you can you know! You have so much potential. (CLICK=hang up first)</p><p></p><p>Be sad if you must BG, try not to bury those emotions, face them head on.</p><p>Then turn on some favorite music, go to a movie, a walk, do something for YOU.</p><p>I think words and thoughts and also <em>emotions</em> have power. These d cs squeeze and squeeze and squeeze us with this, this STUFF, till we are raw and disoriented and dammit, they KNOW exactly what they are doing to us. It's just crazy making. They want us to stew in the cauldron of their lifestyles so that we are just empty shells, limp, overcooked vegetables without a care for ourselves, ready to lay our lives down so that they can continue as is.</p><p>As is.</p><p>As is, is their CHOICE, not ours.</p><p>I am mad for you. I want to scream from the mountain "LIFE IS LIKE THIS FOR YOU BECAUSE THIS IS HOW YOU CHOOSE TO LIVE!"</p><p>You did your best job with your boy, as I did with my two. They make these choices and when the consequences smack them upside the head, they want us to feel them too. UGH.</p><p>Not happening.</p><p>No, no, no, no, NO!</p><p>Their choices, their consequences!</p><p>We do not own their consequences!</p><p>Okay, rant over!!!!</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/919Mad.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":919Mad:" title="Mad :919Mad:" data-shortname=":919Mad:" /></p><p>YOU MATTER BG!</p><p>We all MATTER!</p><p>Off to work</p><p>Big, big</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>Leafy</p><p>P.S.</p><p></p><p>GOOD ANSWER!</p><p>(((MORE HUGS)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 695930, member: 19522"] Hey BG, it's been a while, I am glad you posted, but sorry for your need to. I think we go through a kaleidoscope of emotions processing all of this. These are our beloveds after all and their choices are heart and gut wrenching. Then there is that manipulation factor that just twists the knife in further. My latest mantra is that our d cs will do what they want to do, regardless of what "help" we give or do not give. OMG, BG, can you even imagine going through the 10 year thing all over again? I can't, I WON'T!!!!!! After reading this I thought, we should have a thread on responses, well there probably is one......yes there is but a new one...... So here goes [B]"But, You're my mother" [/B] Yes I am and I love you, I won't be around forever, [I]learn to be self sufficient.[/I] I love you, but I matter, too. You can do this thing called life, and so MUST I. Life is short and I am going to live it the best I can, you should do the same. I love you very much dear (CLICK=hang up FIRST) Oh, its you, I am kind of fuzzy, just woke up and I had this awesome dream that you were doing well, living your life to the fullest........you can you know! You have so much potential. (CLICK=hang up first) Be sad if you must BG, try not to bury those emotions, face them head on. Then turn on some favorite music, go to a movie, a walk, do something for YOU. I think words and thoughts and also [I]emotions[/I] have power. These d cs squeeze and squeeze and squeeze us with this, this STUFF, till we are raw and disoriented and dammit, they KNOW exactly what they are doing to us. It's just crazy making. They want us to stew in the cauldron of their lifestyles so that we are just empty shells, limp, overcooked vegetables without a care for ourselves, ready to lay our lives down so that they can continue as is. As is. As is, is their CHOICE, not ours. I am mad for you. I want to scream from the mountain "LIFE IS LIKE THIS FOR YOU BECAUSE THIS IS HOW YOU CHOOSE TO LIVE!" You did your best job with your boy, as I did with my two. They make these choices and when the consequences smack them upside the head, they want us to feel them too. UGH. Not happening. No, no, no, no, NO! Their choices, their consequences! We do not own their consequences! Okay, rant over!!!! :919Mad: YOU MATTER BG! We all MATTER! Off to work Big, big (((HUGS))) Leafy P.S. GOOD ANSWER! (((MORE HUGS))) [/QUOTE]
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