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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 333517" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>While I think the sentiment is nice, I would stop referring to her as his other girlfriend. I would say your friend, your buddy, your classmate. When you PUT the acceptance factor in his head? YOU are PUTTING it there. It's a dangerous on the edge thing to do in my humble opinion. </p><p></p><p>I GET the meaning, I do. But I also did the same thing with my x, and in a loving tone. I meant no disrespect to her, and I really appreciated her. SHE "GOT" him on levels that I didn't. Eventually she GOT him period. So I say this to you with caution, that while it's cute and playful now. It's a seed that is being planted that could blossom. </p><p></p><p>I'd also avoid BFF and things of that nature. What's wrong with calling her by her name? I'd also reimburse her for the coffee or get a gift card each week with your S/O's portion of his coffee and for a while he can pay for hers as a favor maybe for picking him up?? </p><p></p><p>Maybe even a gas card for her fuel? Keep it even-steven. Know what I mean?? </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry - It's just how I roll.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 333517, member: 4964"] While I think the sentiment is nice, I would stop referring to her as his other girlfriend. I would say your friend, your buddy, your classmate. When you PUT the acceptance factor in his head? YOU are PUTTING it there. It's a dangerous on the edge thing to do in my humble opinion. I GET the meaning, I do. But I also did the same thing with my x, and in a loving tone. I meant no disrespect to her, and I really appreciated her. SHE "GOT" him on levels that I didn't. Eventually she GOT him period. So I say this to you with caution, that while it's cute and playful now. It's a seed that is being planted that could blossom. I'd also avoid BFF and things of that nature. What's wrong with calling her by her name? I'd also reimburse her for the coffee or get a gift card each week with your S/O's portion of his coffee and for a while he can pay for hers as a favor maybe for picking him up?? Maybe even a gas card for her fuel? Keep it even-steven. Know what I mean?? I'm sorry - It's just how I roll. [/QUOTE]
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