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my child loves to be the victim - how to reteach?
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 396217" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>oh sheesh ok my older one, easy child is a "sh*t stirrer" i call her lol. she loves a reaction. she isn't a true difficult child but loves to push buttons and than loves getting ppl crazy. why i dont' know LOL. i just don't take the bait as you guys sound like you aren't either. yet kids aren't going to get that though.</p><p> </p><p>does he wonder why kids do this to him?? does he say whyd' so and so do this? if you explain why does he put two and two together? i bet your answer is no from what you wrote.</p><p> </p><p>i dont' know really i think if it were my kid natural consequences usually nip it in the butt if it's a behavioral thing yet for him that doesn't seem to be working. what if you tried one on one friend things at your house? just do that and steer him away from "group" things? start there. see how that goes than increase the number of kids. if two come and he starts his b.s. than send them home and tell him that beforehand. it's all caues and effect with it i think in my own opinion. </p><p> </p><p>he's striving for attention yet as i've learned and learn each and everyday with my own difficult child always the negative way. sounds like he's got social skills down pat just has to learn how to use his attention seeking for good and not evil.</p><p> </p><p>than if it happens in school sheesh you can't control that one, he's just gotta see ok i pushed buttons and this is what i got. you sure it's not related to his diagnosis, impulsivity control??</p><p> </p><p>good luck hope that helped just kinda thought ok what would i do? i also used to do board games with-rules with-difficult child to teach her patience, control that sort of thing. because her patience level was umm non existant</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 396217, member: 4514"] oh sheesh ok my older one, easy child is a "sh*t stirrer" i call her lol. she loves a reaction. she isn't a true difficult child but loves to push buttons and than loves getting ppl crazy. why i dont' know LOL. i just don't take the bait as you guys sound like you aren't either. yet kids aren't going to get that though. does he wonder why kids do this to him?? does he say whyd' so and so do this? if you explain why does he put two and two together? i bet your answer is no from what you wrote. i dont' know really i think if it were my kid natural consequences usually nip it in the butt if it's a behavioral thing yet for him that doesn't seem to be working. what if you tried one on one friend things at your house? just do that and steer him away from "group" things? start there. see how that goes than increase the number of kids. if two come and he starts his b.s. than send them home and tell him that beforehand. it's all caues and effect with it i think in my own opinion. he's striving for attention yet as i've learned and learn each and everyday with my own difficult child always the negative way. sounds like he's got social skills down pat just has to learn how to use his attention seeking for good and not evil. than if it happens in school sheesh you can't control that one, he's just gotta see ok i pushed buttons and this is what i got. you sure it's not related to his diagnosis, impulsivity control?? good luck hope that helped just kinda thought ok what would i do? i also used to do board games with-rules with-difficult child to teach her patience, control that sort of thing. because her patience level was umm non existant [/QUOTE]
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