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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 486469" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Hello and hugs, I am so glad you found your way to these wonderful people. I do not have this situation so wont pretend to give any wise advice, there are loving, kind truly knowledgeable folks here who can do that. I can give you a child perspective. Your hubby had a right to be angry. I wont even NOT defend the fight, it was out of a crazy situation. I can tell you how having a very angry father, who was scary at times feels. our family never go to that level but there were some ugly moments and we all as a family (I suspect this is not a time to include the 21 yr old, you can work that out later) all went to counseling, several times....when I was in, when my sisters were in.....</p><p></p><p>My dad is a different man now, loving, generous, kind, and he even apologized back then..really made a difference. That kind of anger, with or without your son (you said he always had this) can influence the coping of a child and they can turn to things like drugs. I had an eating disorder. </p><p></p><p>Just my perspective, out of love and care..... Buddy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 486469, member: 12886"] Hello and hugs, I am so glad you found your way to these wonderful people. I do not have this situation so wont pretend to give any wise advice, there are loving, kind truly knowledgeable folks here who can do that. I can give you a child perspective. Your hubby had a right to be angry. I wont even NOT defend the fight, it was out of a crazy situation. I can tell you how having a very angry father, who was scary at times feels. our family never go to that level but there were some ugly moments and we all as a family (I suspect this is not a time to include the 21 yr old, you can work that out later) all went to counseling, several times....when I was in, when my sisters were in..... My dad is a different man now, loving, generous, kind, and he even apologized back then..really made a difference. That kind of anger, with or without your son (you said he always had this) can influence the coping of a child and they can turn to things like drugs. I had an eating disorder. Just my perspective, out of love and care..... Buddy [/QUOTE]
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