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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 486485" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Welcome, Needhelp.</p><p></p><p>What a scene.</p><p>I agree with-the others. Your son needs to move out. I don't know what you do in the daytime, but I'm guessing that around 3 p.m., your 21-yr-old should be awake and halfway coherent. Sit down with-a pen and piece of paper and write up a plan with him. Tell him that you and he both know that his living with-you is not helping him to grow up and you know that he wants his indendence. He was probably right when he said he has no place to go. Still, he needs to go NOW. Grab the classified section of the paper and go through it with-him. Have him do the work. I do not know what your history is, but there is no time like the present. </p><p>Also, your husband definitely needs counseling. He has a right to be angry, but he was was over the top. Maybe he needs medications, too. You two have to talk about that when you are both calm. Make an appointment with-him to discuss it. Say it's an appointment to discuss family and personal issues, just the two of you. If you are afraid he will go off on you, then make an appointment with-a marriage and family therapist to play interference.</p><p>In the meantime, change the locks on all the doors.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 486485, member: 3419"] Welcome, Needhelp. What a scene. I agree with-the others. Your son needs to move out. I don't know what you do in the daytime, but I'm guessing that around 3 p.m., your 21-yr-old should be awake and halfway coherent. Sit down with-a pen and piece of paper and write up a plan with him. Tell him that you and he both know that his living with-you is not helping him to grow up and you know that he wants his indendence. He was probably right when he said he has no place to go. Still, he needs to go NOW. Grab the classified section of the paper and go through it with-him. Have him do the work. I do not know what your history is, but there is no time like the present. Also, your husband definitely needs counseling. He has a right to be angry, but he was was over the top. Maybe he needs medications, too. You two have to talk about that when you are both calm. Make an appointment with-him to discuss it. Say it's an appointment to discuss family and personal issues, just the two of you. If you are afraid he will go off on you, then make an appointment with-a marriage and family therapist to play interference. In the meantime, change the locks on all the doors. [/QUOTE]
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