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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 460354" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I found his discharge paperwork. It was in the most unlikely place, which is why I looked for it there, oddly enough. husband's SS card and birth certificate were there as well. So that issue is resolved. And it would have been a huge issue had I not found it. Like I said, oddly enough I went to right where it was, sorted through a lot of junk paperwork and there it was all neat in a folder. I also found all of the bills that were coming due. Good thing as the lights were due to be shut off after the 1st of this month, no clue why they weren't but easy child paid it online so it's taken care of. Cable / phone / internet shut off today and it hit me it hadn't been paid so I ran out there and paid it. (obviously or I wouldn't be online) Have the gas and water bills in front of me to pay tomorrow. </p><p></p><p>I get up and piddle like that for a while, then sit again for a while. I have a feeling it's going to be a rough night and I find I'm not so anxious to go to bed, although I'm worn out. Mentally, though my mind won't shut off. I don't have enough to distract me now. </p><p></p><p>Too many things to worry about. The house. We had insurance to pay it off should one of us die (so the other wouldn't be left with the financial burden) and I don't know how to do that or if husband being behind in payments affect it. Shouldn't as the policy was paid a year in advance with the house payments. But I'll worry until I know. Silly thing to worry about a house......but life doesn't stop and a person has to have a place to live. </p><p></p><p>The bank accts were in his name only because one was for SS and the other for unemployment. We were going to the bank today to add me to the account. I don't know when or if those accounts will be frozen. easy child's went and removed as much as she could with the bank cards today just in case so I wouldn't be hurting for cash. Feel like sort of a ogre thinking about that as well.....but well, not much choice with that either. If they freeze it the funeral home will have to wait until it's out of probate to be paid. I'll be removing as much cash as possible each day until it does freeze and placing it into a new account to use for bills ect. </p><p></p><p>There is his car........ Which I don't want and won't drive.</p><p></p><p>Stang, Step, and anyone else who would like to come over will be fine. Just let us know. easy child reminds me that this time I don't have to be strong. Which is good, cuz I'm not feeling very strong tonight...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 460354, member: 84"] I found his discharge paperwork. It was in the most unlikely place, which is why I looked for it there, oddly enough. husband's SS card and birth certificate were there as well. So that issue is resolved. And it would have been a huge issue had I not found it. Like I said, oddly enough I went to right where it was, sorted through a lot of junk paperwork and there it was all neat in a folder. I also found all of the bills that were coming due. Good thing as the lights were due to be shut off after the 1st of this month, no clue why they weren't but easy child paid it online so it's taken care of. Cable / phone / internet shut off today and it hit me it hadn't been paid so I ran out there and paid it. (obviously or I wouldn't be online) Have the gas and water bills in front of me to pay tomorrow. I get up and piddle like that for a while, then sit again for a while. I have a feeling it's going to be a rough night and I find I'm not so anxious to go to bed, although I'm worn out. Mentally, though my mind won't shut off. I don't have enough to distract me now. Too many things to worry about. The house. We had insurance to pay it off should one of us die (so the other wouldn't be left with the financial burden) and I don't know how to do that or if husband being behind in payments affect it. Shouldn't as the policy was paid a year in advance with the house payments. But I'll worry until I know. Silly thing to worry about a house......but life doesn't stop and a person has to have a place to live. The bank accts were in his name only because one was for SS and the other for unemployment. We were going to the bank today to add me to the account. I don't know when or if those accounts will be frozen. easy child's went and removed as much as she could with the bank cards today just in case so I wouldn't be hurting for cash. Feel like sort of a ogre thinking about that as well.....but well, not much choice with that either. If they freeze it the funeral home will have to wait until it's out of probate to be paid. I'll be removing as much cash as possible each day until it does freeze and placing it into a new account to use for bills ect. There is his car........ Which I don't want and won't drive. Stang, Step, and anyone else who would like to come over will be fine. Just let us know. easy child reminds me that this time I don't have to be strong. Which is good, cuz I'm not feeling very strong tonight... [/QUOTE]
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