husband has been insistent that HE handle the paperwork and requirements for this life change. I have been asked to give advice but to let him handle things. So WHY is all the paperwork dumped on me, then he has a fit if he forgets something? I just found some paperwork and I have no idea if a deadline has been missed to change insurance and what not. I have NEVER seen this. He has been just piling paperwork for school, bills etc on me. He needed a school form I hadn't seen to take thank you back to school today. I found this and he almost hit the ceiling. Almost. I have no clue what is going on, but if this is MY fault, as he snapped at me, then he better pony up records on all the jobs, etc... he has and has not been chasing. Mommy. Is. Not. Happy. Thank you for letting me vent.