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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 693074" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>It's my grandsons Birthday this coming weekend. There are 4 Grandparents but only one is allowed to attend . I knew in my mind that this day was coming, and I was fine with it. Only up until the one grandparent who has been asked to attend told me about the party and he was invited. It was like I was punched in the stomach. I didn't expect an invitation but why have I been on an emotional roller coaster ever since? I know my grandson will be happy that day to see his other grandfather, he is only 6, innocent of everything that's going on around him and oblivious to why his other grandparents are not there. </p><p></p><p>I sound childish, i sound like I'm wallowing in this pity party, But I'm not. I'm devasted that this is his first birthday party that I can't attend. I'm devasted that I'm here in this place where I can't attend my only grandchilds party. If by sone miracle we were invited , would I attend? I very much doubt it. </p><p></p><p>How can my only daughter and child let this happen? To grovel to her, I wil Lose total self respect and giving her total control that she craves. I guess this is an example of the hard days estranged parents and grandparents have to endure. </p><p></p><p>We made plans for that day to be golfing with friends. Somehow I have a feeling that even though I will be in a picturesque setting, surrounded. By caring friends who have no idea what that day represents, I will be wearing a huge smile,but inside I'm completely devasted. When does it stop?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 693074, member: 20312"] It's my grandsons Birthday this coming weekend. There are 4 Grandparents but only one is allowed to attend . I knew in my mind that this day was coming, and I was fine with it. Only up until the one grandparent who has been asked to attend told me about the party and he was invited. It was like I was punched in the stomach. I didn't expect an invitation but why have I been on an emotional roller coaster ever since? I know my grandson will be happy that day to see his other grandfather, he is only 6, innocent of everything that's going on around him and oblivious to why his other grandparents are not there. I sound childish, i sound like I'm wallowing in this pity party, But I'm not. I'm devasted that this is his first birthday party that I can't attend. I'm devasted that I'm here in this place where I can't attend my only grandchilds party. If by sone miracle we were invited , would I attend? I very much doubt it. How can my only daughter and child let this happen? To grovel to her, I wil Lose total self respect and giving her total control that she craves. I guess this is an example of the hard days estranged parents and grandparents have to endure. We made plans for that day to be golfing with friends. Somehow I have a feeling that even though I will be in a picturesque setting, surrounded. By caring friends who have no idea what that day represents, I will be wearing a huge smile,but inside I'm completely devasted. When does it stop? [/QUOTE]
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