shellyd67
Active Member
We are on a downward spiral. difficult child is struggling so bad in school. He is so defiant and rude. I love him but I do not like him one bit.
I cry everyday. I am trying to find counseling but my copay is $50 for each visit. I cannot afford to send difficult child and myself. He needs it more than I do right now.
He is refusing to even pick up his pencil or open his text books. I get a call or email from his school once or twice a week. difficult child is not focusing, difficult child is not cooperating. His SD is really supportive and working with us in every way. Some of his teachers even offered to come in early to tutor him. He refuses ( I cannot blame him, he isn't able to manage his regular day let alone come in early) He has learning support teachers in his classes and all his teachers send home study guides, etc...
He has been back and forth to the therapist three times in the last month. No medicine has ever worked for him. NOTHING ! He has terrible side effects and still is unfocused and "checks out".
husband and I have contempt between us. We both help difficult child tremendously but if he does not atleast try to help himself we are in a lose lose situation.
It doesn't help that his sister is an honor student who excels at everything she touches and is well liked and popular.
He hates her and treats her terribly yet she always tries to win his love and friendship.
It is heartbreaking.
My gut tells me he is mentally ill or has Autism on some level but no Doctor will concur.
I forget how to change my signature, difficult child is now 13 & 1/2 and takes 5mg of Lexapro.
I feel like giving up on him ...
I cry everyday. I am trying to find counseling but my copay is $50 for each visit. I cannot afford to send difficult child and myself. He needs it more than I do right now.
He is refusing to even pick up his pencil or open his text books. I get a call or email from his school once or twice a week. difficult child is not focusing, difficult child is not cooperating. His SD is really supportive and working with us in every way. Some of his teachers even offered to come in early to tutor him. He refuses ( I cannot blame him, he isn't able to manage his regular day let alone come in early) He has learning support teachers in his classes and all his teachers send home study guides, etc...
He has been back and forth to the therapist three times in the last month. No medicine has ever worked for him. NOTHING ! He has terrible side effects and still is unfocused and "checks out".
husband and I have contempt between us. We both help difficult child tremendously but if he does not atleast try to help himself we are in a lose lose situation.
It doesn't help that his sister is an honor student who excels at everything she touches and is well liked and popular.
He hates her and treats her terribly yet she always tries to win his love and friendship.
It is heartbreaking.
My gut tells me he is mentally ill or has Autism on some level but no Doctor will concur.
I forget how to change my signature, difficult child is now 13 & 1/2 and takes 5mg of Lexapro.
I feel like giving up on him ...