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My husband and I are splitting up
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 241597" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I'm sure you are crushed and you are going thru a very rough thing emotionally. But, I agree with another poster who suggested that even if he <em>thinks</em> it is your weight, it really isn't. But, I am starting to think that he realizes it's not really that either. I think if he were repulsed by you, he would have already left home and found someone else and gone on with his life and 2) if he was only sticking around for the kids' sake, he wouldn't be struggling so much opening upp about it all while trying to make an effort and stating "he wants to work things out". </p><p></p><p>It just sounds all very painful for both of you, mostly you, right now. I think you should hang in there and give this some more time. Try to give him a little benefit of the doubt for making an effort and remember that he needs to work thru some things, too, and some of them might/will include anger, hurt feelings, etc., on both sides- in my humble opinion.</p><p></p><p>Oh boy- he might be a lot more sensitive aboout his testosterone (his manliness) than you are about your weight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 241597, member: 3699"] I'm sure you are crushed and you are going thru a very rough thing emotionally. But, I agree with another poster who suggested that even if he [I]thinks[/I] it is your weight, it really isn't. But, I am starting to think that he realizes it's not really that either. I think if he were repulsed by you, he would have already left home and found someone else and gone on with his life and 2) if he was only sticking around for the kids' sake, he wouldn't be struggling so much opening upp about it all while trying to make an effort and stating "he wants to work things out". It just sounds all very painful for both of you, mostly you, right now. I think you should hang in there and give this some more time. Try to give him a little benefit of the doubt for making an effort and remember that he needs to work thru some things, too, and some of them might/will include anger, hurt feelings, etc., on both sides- in my humble opinion. Oh boy- he might be a lot more sensitive aboout his testosterone (his manliness) than you are about your weight. [/QUOTE]
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