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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 419505" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>We will be getting some tax money back if he EVER gets the documents for me to file. He insisted that he would keep them together and that he would do the taxes this year. So now we can find ONE of the papers, he lost the others because he refuses to put anything away anywhere unless I have an absolute cow about it. Now he has to go and get copies from the places. </p><p> </p><p>In the past I have spent a couple hundred of the tax $$ to have someoen come in, at least since my body gave out from all the stress of doing all the difficult child stuff alone (he refused to do much with Wiz because he just couldn 't cope and they did nothing but smash their heads together like fools). This year I refuse because the last time he had trashed the house less than a week after I paid a lady over $250 to clean it out. A good part of that was to clean out the spare room, get all the boxes neatly stacked and some shelves put in (shelves I bought used because we couldn't afford new ones). Even that room was totally pitted out in lesst han a week and he is the ONLY one who even enters it ever!</p><p> </p><p>So now he has to do it. He told me he did "a couple of steps" today and would do more tomorrow. I told him no, he will have to start at the beginning each time if he doesn't buckle down and do it all in one chunk of time. It would take me about 2 hrs if I was at full speed the way I used to be. But it would likely land me in a serious world of hurt and if I managed to fall I would likley break a hip or leg or knee. </p><p> </p><p>I hate having to give him chores and ride him about them like I am his mommy. He HAS a mommy. And a step mom and a mother in law. But I sitll have to give him chores like a mommy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 419505, member: 1233"] We will be getting some tax money back if he EVER gets the documents for me to file. He insisted that he would keep them together and that he would do the taxes this year. So now we can find ONE of the papers, he lost the others because he refuses to put anything away anywhere unless I have an absolute cow about it. Now he has to go and get copies from the places. In the past I have spent a couple hundred of the tax $$ to have someoen come in, at least since my body gave out from all the stress of doing all the difficult child stuff alone (he refused to do much with Wiz because he just couldn 't cope and they did nothing but smash their heads together like fools). This year I refuse because the last time he had trashed the house less than a week after I paid a lady over $250 to clean it out. A good part of that was to clean out the spare room, get all the boxes neatly stacked and some shelves put in (shelves I bought used because we couldn't afford new ones). Even that room was totally pitted out in lesst han a week and he is the ONLY one who even enters it ever! So now he has to do it. He told me he did "a couple of steps" today and would do more tomorrow. I told him no, he will have to start at the beginning each time if he doesn't buckle down and do it all in one chunk of time. It would take me about 2 hrs if I was at full speed the way I used to be. But it would likely land me in a serious world of hurt and if I managed to fall I would likley break a hip or leg or knee. I hate having to give him chores and ride him about them like I am his mommy. He HAS a mommy. And a step mom and a mother in law. But I sitll have to give him chores like a mommy. [/QUOTE]
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