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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 724843" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>how does son feel about his dad? do you think he feels safe with him?</p><p></p><p>are you able to trust his dad now? i mean like more than 80 percent? do you think he gets it? dad sounds scared.</p><p></p><p>will son be drug tested regularly? i assume so.</p><p></p><p>i am forgetting. is there any chance of residential treatment?</p><p></p><p>i would be hesitant to bring son home if your daughter has been traumatized in the past and feels afraid. you would be worried all the time. daughter needs protection too. that's how i feel.</p><p></p><p>if son is monitored all the time by the op tx won't it kind of be as if his dad is monitored too?</p><p></p><p>if son loves his dad and dad loves son, and dad is "scared straight" maybe this is the best you can do right now. real life is well: real.</p><p></p><p>it sounds like you and son have excellent communication. what a gift.</p><p></p><p>i do not think it is too soon to tell him you have full confidence in him. and show it by trusting that he and dad will step up. (if you feel in the main that dad will.)</p><p></p><p>and it is not too soon to think of what is next.</p><p></p><p>i cannot say enough good things about job corps. they take youth with diagnoses, disabilities and drug problems. once son is thru treatment. and vocational rehab provides support, counseling and pays for training and education. (at least they do in my state.)</p><p></p><p>i feel every confidence son will be okay. he has major strengths in my book.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 724843, member: 18958"] how does son feel about his dad? do you think he feels safe with him? are you able to trust his dad now? i mean like more than 80 percent? do you think he gets it? dad sounds scared. will son be drug tested regularly? i assume so. i am forgetting. is there any chance of residential treatment? i would be hesitant to bring son home if your daughter has been traumatized in the past and feels afraid. you would be worried all the time. daughter needs protection too. that's how i feel. if son is monitored all the time by the op tx won't it kind of be as if his dad is monitored too? if son loves his dad and dad loves son, and dad is "scared straight" maybe this is the best you can do right now. real life is well: real. it sounds like you and son have excellent communication. what a gift. i do not think it is too soon to tell him you have full confidence in him. and show it by trusting that he and dad will step up. (if you feel in the main that dad will.) and it is not too soon to think of what is next. i cannot say enough good things about job corps. they take youth with diagnoses, disabilities and drug problems. once son is thru treatment. and vocational rehab provides support, counseling and pays for training and education. (at least they do in my state.) i feel every confidence son will be okay. he has major strengths in my book. [/QUOTE]
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