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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 692969" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>SWOT - you are right. </p><p></p><p>We do not plan to give him the car back for a long time if ever. He has a long way to go after what happened. After detox he has to spend two weeks in inpatient program and then back to IOP with the place in Delray that he started out at. If he leaves the program or does not do as they ask - this time - we are telling him he has to go to a shelter and get a job and get himself back to where he needs to be without our car. We have learned a lesson here too. My husband just felt he was doing so good although I had my reservations all along. We all learned the hard way this time. </p><p></p><p>I am so disappointed that she did that. That she helped him get back into drugs. But I have to let him handle all of that. I just can't get over the shock. I am one of those people that looks for the good. I still blame him for this.</p><p></p><p>When he calls do I let him know how devastated we are and will continue to be? Do I tell him that there will come a point where we will no longer take his calls or be there for him? He said last week that I'm living in the past. Is it really the past when it's only been a week? I told him all this taught us is that HE cannot be sober on his own. He thought he could or maybe he wasn't committed enough to stay sober. I don't know anymore. I know that he is destroying me; intentional or not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 692969, member: 15032"] SWOT - you are right. We do not plan to give him the car back for a long time if ever. He has a long way to go after what happened. After detox he has to spend two weeks in inpatient program and then back to IOP with the place in Delray that he started out at. If he leaves the program or does not do as they ask - this time - we are telling him he has to go to a shelter and get a job and get himself back to where he needs to be without our car. We have learned a lesson here too. My husband just felt he was doing so good although I had my reservations all along. We all learned the hard way this time. I am so disappointed that she did that. That she helped him get back into drugs. But I have to let him handle all of that. I just can't get over the shock. I am one of those people that looks for the good. I still blame him for this. When he calls do I let him know how devastated we are and will continue to be? Do I tell him that there will come a point where we will no longer take his calls or be there for him? He said last week that I'm living in the past. Is it really the past when it's only been a week? I told him all this taught us is that HE cannot be sober on his own. He thought he could or maybe he wasn't committed enough to stay sober. I don't know anymore. I know that he is destroying me; intentional or not. [/QUOTE]
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