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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 693245" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Leafy I have been thinking about what you said; that his rock bottom is rehab. He does not entertain the idea of being in a shelter at all. </p><p></p><p>I will have to focus more on that in my future dealings with him. I don't like the fact that we are in control of his life. I want him to take control - he is almost 21! But I think it's how it must be for now.</p><p></p><p>When he got to PHP yesterday he was upset that he could not have his phone or computer for 2 weeks. His house manager contacted me and reiterated that these items were owned by us. Yes that is correct. He has to follow the rules. He wants his own way. I hate that he is there acting like an ass!</p><p></p><p>Again yesterday he told me he does not want to live in rehabs, sober livings etc. for the rest of his life. I am not sure why he keeps saying this. These are the choices HE has made. I'm not going to swoop in and fix all of his messes. He has to now go through the program again. I cannot understand why he keeps complaining to me. I don't want to hear it anymore.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 693245, member: 15032"] Leafy I have been thinking about what you said; that his rock bottom is rehab. He does not entertain the idea of being in a shelter at all. I will have to focus more on that in my future dealings with him. I don't like the fact that we are in control of his life. I want him to take control - he is almost 21! But I think it's how it must be for now. When he got to PHP yesterday he was upset that he could not have his phone or computer for 2 weeks. His house manager contacted me and reiterated that these items were owned by us. Yes that is correct. He has to follow the rules. He wants his own way. I hate that he is there acting like an ass! Again yesterday he told me he does not want to live in rehabs, sober livings etc. for the rest of his life. I am not sure why he keeps saying this. These are the choices HE has made. I'm not going to swoop in and fix all of his messes. He has to now go through the program again. I cannot understand why he keeps complaining to me. I don't want to hear it anymore. [/QUOTE]
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