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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 693820" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>My son still has a week in PHP (no cell phone and very little house phone time) and on Friday night he called and I was able to tell him many things that I was feeling. He does not have privacy there during calls so said very little but I got some things off my chest so was happy for that. I told him that he had said he was not changing (before this relapse) and he said he never said that. Uh yes he did.</p><p></p><p>He then called again Sunday and husband and I were in the car. He had not talked to his dad since his overdose and traffic tickets. My husband gave him a piece of his mind about the driving while drinking, and the other ticket. He said he felt very betrayed after he had spent money getting car in shape for him and spent money having it shipped to him so he could use it for college classes and to get job farther away from where he lives. I do not feel my husband was over the top - which he can be at times. Son promptly hung up on us.</p><p></p><p>I am very angry with him right now. I will not even answer if he calls today. I have nothing to say. He is being very disrespectful to us. Biting the hand that feeds him and biting hard. I am losing hope. I hate to say that. I just don't see him being sorry or remorseful for the overdose or the tickets. Not seeing anything I want to see. I know that actions speak louder than words but for now not seeing anything at all. I plan to talk to my therapist today about my feelings/next steps. Our relationship with him is at an all time low.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 693820, member: 15032"] My son still has a week in PHP (no cell phone and very little house phone time) and on Friday night he called and I was able to tell him many things that I was feeling. He does not have privacy there during calls so said very little but I got some things off my chest so was happy for that. I told him that he had said he was not changing (before this relapse) and he said he never said that. Uh yes he did. He then called again Sunday and husband and I were in the car. He had not talked to his dad since his overdose and traffic tickets. My husband gave him a piece of his mind about the driving while drinking, and the other ticket. He said he felt very betrayed after he had spent money getting car in shape for him and spent money having it shipped to him so he could use it for college classes and to get job farther away from where he lives. I do not feel my husband was over the top - which he can be at times. Son promptly hung up on us. I am very angry with him right now. I will not even answer if he calls today. I have nothing to say. He is being very disrespectful to us. Biting the hand that feeds him and biting hard. I am losing hope. I hate to say that. I just don't see him being sorry or remorseful for the overdose or the tickets. Not seeing anything I want to see. I know that actions speak louder than words but for now not seeing anything at all. I plan to talk to my therapist today about my feelings/next steps. Our relationship with him is at an all time low. [/QUOTE]
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